relationship

United States
December 14, 2006 5:02pm CST
I have been in a this relationship for nine years and all of sudden my mate have been staying out all night. This have been going on for 3 weeks now. he would come home change clothes and come back the next day and do the same thing over. Last week he left on Friday and came back on sunday. when he came home on sunday i had an high school friend over when he came. My mate got mad. he left on monday and came back home on saturday to get his clothes. we have three kids together. he haven't told me anything about what's going on. i don't think what he did was wrong. I want him to come back home. I can't get over my feelings.
2 responses
• United States
14 Dec 06
From experience I tell you this......If your husband thinks you are cheating and he accuses you of doing so, it is likely that he is the cheater. If you love him and want to work it out, I suggest you start small. Regain trust. Maybe seek counseling too.
• United States
14 Dec 06
yes i love him and i told him that but i don't know what's he's thinking because he want talk to me. how could you be in a long term relationship and just move in with another woman.
@nishanity (1650)
• India
15 Dec 06
dnt u ever talk to this guy of urs? either he is having an affair...or he thinks u r having one.. if u want him to come back, then go pick the phone up,gal and talk to him... see wats bothering him... for all u know, it might be something very silly... trust me!!