FOR WOMEN ONLY: Do you agree with Polygamy?
By innechen
@innechen (1318)
Indonesia
December 14, 2006 11:26pm CST
in my country there are lots of man doing this polygamy things specially since they said it is allows in their religion.and i really disagree. there's no way a man can be fair to all their wife if they have more then one, they must be more care about their newest wife then the oldest one.what do you think.
5 responses
@Ravenladyj (22904)
• United States
20 Dec 06
I disagree....but I'm not by any means speaking for all ppl who have poly relationships or open marriages etc..it varies from relationship to relationship just like monog relationships do....I have tremendous love for my husband and my (now ex) other man...Ppl tend to think I could only love them each half way but that is such a mistake to think (IMO) that there are limits to how much a person is able to love...i love them both passionately and deeply and neither one more than the other at all...
"there's no way a man can be fair to all their wife if they have more then one, they must be more care about their newest wife then the oldest one"
but why do you think that? the newest one and the spouse have a connection on one level and the older one has a connection on a different level....When you start a relationship with someone new its just that "new", getting to know each other etc etc but 10 yrs down the road when its not new anymore do you love them any less?
@innechen (1318)
• Indonesia
22 Dec 06
its actually not right to give your husband and your ex the same scale of love because however there's no such as same deeply love, there must be only one of them u love more. people's heart can be change...for some people if there's nothing bad happens then there's no way their love would decrease but some people sometimes get bored of the monotoon relationship.we can love anyone; God,our family, children, husband/wife, ex- but must be not the same amount.if u can share the same amount of love to anyone then its mean u r perfect as a human but..nobody's perfect coz only God is
@birthlady (5609)
• United States
22 Dec 06
I disagree with polygamy! I've got a discussion on this topic because I am trying to understand the reasons behind beliefs that a man is entitled to many wives. As a woman, no, I do not agree with polygamy!
@Marie2473 (8512)
• Sweden
15 Dec 06
Fair to all the wifes?
I do not belive that it is fair to any of them to have several. if my man wuld come home and declare that he will take another gf i would kick him out before he even finishes the sentence *hehe*
Never would i accept this!
@lauczi (962)
• Poland
22 Dec 06
i dont mind polygamy but not 1 man and 3 wives, but one womand and 3 husbands! that would be fun, i wonder how men would feel about that, as now they dont mind traditional polygamy. i wouldnt go in that becuz i have my the only one but i would love to have friend with 2 or 3 husbands hehe! if i were muslim i would just go and change the law with equal rights for women!
