How did you meet your spouse?

I met my current husband while still married to my first. No, I did not have an affair. We were at a party held by a club. He came to these dances and actually performed at these dances. Then when my EX left, someone at the dance (6 weeks after he left) said to my husband "she's available now" and pointed in my direction. So he came over and talked to me. He was such a sweetheart then. It has taken me 14 years to realize that his "I'm taking you home. You need to talk." was really a pick-up line. He never listens to me when I want to talk! LOL!