Luv her alot but m not rich dats why she is not wid me.

@saeedsid (1120)
Pakistan
December 15, 2006 9:25am CST
Friends I luv her alot but its just dat she is very rich and I am not.... so she dOnt want to be with me.... Plz help me what should I do?
6 responses
@edras_2 (299)
• United States
15 Dec 06
Forget about her and start looking for someone who will love you for your self,because in her eyes you will never measure up to her expectations.It's sad that some people equate love with money.She sounds very shallow.You're better off without her.
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@saeedsid (1120)
• Pakistan
15 Dec 06
I am nt able to handle my self I jUst cant be without her.....I love her to the limit of madness.....
@edras_2 (299)
• United States
15 Dec 06
I'm truly sorry for you,and please don't take this wrong,but this sounds more like obsession than love.Put your mind on other things,pray, go hang out with friends.Do things that take your mind somewhere else,because this will surely make you crazy if you let it.It sounds like this is never going to work for you,so let it go now or it will only hurt you MORE later.Take it fromw one who knows,been there,done that.Maybe you don't believe this,but there will be someone else for you,and it will be the right one.Have you considered that maybe you want this woman so much,simply because you can't have her?
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@saeedsid (1120)
• Pakistan
15 Dec 06
I dnt know the only thing I know is I am just dieing widout her nothin else..... :-( see her dad owns a 5 star hotel, got 12 costomer centre world wide..... so she is very rich, i told her that see baby i cant buy a 5 star hotel 4 u rite now bt still i hv enough of money to take u for dinner to a 5 star everyday..... But still she is not with me..... 2day i've completed my 1 year with her but still she wasnt even bothered bout it.......
• India
15 Dec 06
she likes your money and not you. u being rich is important to her,not just you. you are gaining something by leaving her.
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@saeedsid (1120)
• Pakistan
15 Dec 06
what am I gaining by losing love of my life..you know it really hurts.
@saeedsid (1120)
• Pakistan
15 Dec 06
can anyone tellme that what should I do? feeling really lonely ryt now :(
@FreddyLim (161)
• Singapore
16 Dec 06
First of all I would like to find out from you:- 1. Does the gal love you as much as well? 2. She dun wanna be with you is because her family does not allow or she doesn't want to? If she doesn't wanna be with you just because you are poor then my sincere advise to you is to forget about her. Anyway my feel base on what you had said is that she does not have any feeling for you either. So dun waste your time and effort on her. However, there's one thing that you must take away from this, that is the urge to earn more money and be successful. You would then be able to turn the situation around and be the one rejecting her... My humble and sincere opinion
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@saeedsid (1120)
• Pakistan
16 Dec 06
She says she love me the way I love her but the problem is with the money stuff well she says that she dont want to be with me because of money because since her childhood she is brought up with a great deal of luxuries and all,which sincerely I cannot afford it but similarly I dont want to lose her.Though I agree with you that main urge of mine should be to earn more and more money for her and to be successful only if she says to be with me otherwise I think I will ruin myself up with a complete loser image of myself.
• United States
15 Dec 06
find somebody who will love you for you no matter how much money you have
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@saeedsid (1120)
• Pakistan
15 Dec 06
She says that she love me but the way she talk sometimes i m not sure about it :(
• India
1 Mar 07
Impossible she luves u truely, if she cant accept u without money, she can never luves u truely, jus imagine if tday may be u become a rich person than she will accept u soon, bt if after sumetime u loose all then willn't she leaves u?? that girl is nt accepting today u wthout money, whats the garruanty, in future she will be urs in every condition?? so plzzzzzzz buddy, forgt her, dont leave her immediately, jus start try to ignore her, n if she feels same pinch then let herself allow to be forever urs in any condition.. i also luve sumone, bt hes now jus unemployed, bt we have decided till then he gt start his carrier, we willnot marry or tell our parents abt our realtion bt i havnt leave him for the reason that hes not a rich person nt even a job, bcz i dont luve him as financial, i luve him truely as a soul mate.. n he also luves me back... plzz if u can thn pray for us, we really hardly need,that soon he start his carrier n we gt marry, otherwise we will die both.. God bless u too..
• United States
13 Feb 07
If she refuse u due to ur financial status than it is clear she did'nt love. If she don't want u than why u. Go ahead and search more friends. U will find some one that u want. Wish u good luck. Take Care