why does it always seem that men are soo rude about everything???!!!!?

Woman have just as cruel methods of breaking up.

One experience is not enough to nake a general statement. I sympathise with you though.

We can not change others and their thinking.But we can change ourselves.We can even try thinking putting ourselves in other's shoes.Before coming to a conclusion that your boyfriend was rude it will be better reflecting on what could be the reason and what went wrong in your behavior.That way you will not come to a conclusion that men are so rude about everything.