Love or Lust

@sherinek (3321)
United States
September 21, 2006 11:13pm CST
Which one binds people more
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12 responses
@Lillith (775)
• United States
22 Sep 06
Lust will be immediate and binding for a short time. Once those fires have been put out, there is nothing left to the connection. Love, on the other hand, binds for a very long time. If it is true love, it will be forever. Love and lust can be very closely linked in the beginning of the relationship, but once the lust has worn off, if love isn't present, the relationship is done.
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@Sweety76 (1594)
• India
3 Oct 06
its only love
@sherinek (3321)
• United States
4 Oct 06
Thanks
@aquarian83 (1944)
• United States
24 Jan 07
its love tht binds people... bondage is strong... bondage due to lust is short lived and easily breakable...
• India
23 Jan 07
i go for love its binds people for long time , if it is true .
@ssh123 (31086)
• India
23 Jan 07
Lust is the labour of the love.
@juls2me2 (2151)
• United States
3 Nov 06
I would have to say that Love binds people for a longer period of time. Lust usually is a strong temporary attraction to fulfill a specific purpose. When that is fulfilled...lust usually disappears until the next temporary opportunity. Love is a continual feeling which also include strong attraction, but one that lasts and doesn't just go away.
• United States
2 Nov 06
love.
@ossie16d (11825)
• Australia
2 Nov 06
They are probably equal. To love a person you need trust, honesty, sincerity and genuineness. I think that love is something that happens over time whereas lust is often instantaneous, i.e. based on looks more than anything else. The best combination is deep love with a healthy dose of lust thrown in for good measure. :)
@aphrodisiac (1010)
• India
22 Sep 06
LOVE..AND THEN LUST MAKES IT STRONGER
@aphrodisiac (1010)
• India
22 Sep 06
LOVE..AND THEN LUST MAKES IT STRONGER
@nextgen (1888)
• India
22 Sep 06
lust last for very short time.. its love which binds people
22 Sep 06
Equally they’re just as binding. However lust is short term where as long is a long term commitment, I’d say you’re more than likely to have a deeper lack of sense through the journey of love. Love means trusting, and to trust, there’s a certain amount of blindness and disbelief attached to everything.