What is your ideal guy?
22 Sep 06
Ideally, you should exude some traits from each of these different categories; in fact, you probably already do. With a quick perusal of the list below, you should be in much better shape to understand what women are looking for, and most importantly, to make sure that you fit the bill. 1. The Romantic Guy He believes in classic romance. He is constantly bringing her flowers and chocolate and lighting candles during dinner. He calls her often to let her know he is thinking about her, and looks into her eyes and tells her how he feels. Why he is so irresistible: A woman loves to feel appreciated, and the romantic guy makes this happen. He uses romantic gestures to show her he is thinking about her. As an added bonus, she feels free to reciprocate and act on her own romantic tendencies. 2. The Confident Guy He is totally secure and sure of himself. He is assertive in public, and gives off an aura of power and control (within reason, of course, as the "cocky guy" is not on this list). In a relationship, he doesn't get jealous of other men; he doesn't feel threatened by his girlfriend's male friends or coworkers. Why he is so irresistible: Women are attracted to confident men. Consider this: If you think you are great, she will probably be influenced to think the same. The confident man doesn't seek approval from women, and this makes them want him even more. 3. The Artistic Guy The artistic guy is spontaneous and lives for the moment. Often, he will use his creativity to woo her, such as with a song he has written about her or a painting he has made for her. Why he is so irresistible: Every woman wants to feel unique and special. And there is no better way to make her feel this way than to use her as your muse, or your source of inspiration. She is intrigued by the artistic guy's creative mind, and especially by the way he incorporates her into his art. Charismatic, rebellious, smart, and considerate guys all get the girl...
• New Zealand
22 Sep 06
He is any guy I fall in love with. I have fallen for a guy who is tall and slim with light brown hair and glasses, a guy who is dark and big build, another guy who is blond athletic, another who was skinny short and frickly. Doesn't have to be tall dark and handsome.