Do you hate unexpected guest visit you?

China
December 17, 2006 9:29am CST
when you're watching TV or reading books at home,unexpected guest is visiting you, how do you think?
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11 responses
@lalav1 (1056)
• United States
18 Dec 06
I really do not like unexpected guests. There are a few exceptions, my mom or my best friends, but in general I don't like it at all. Lots of times when I'm home I am wearing a nightshirt or sweats and my hair is in a ponytail, (may need washing), no make up on and maybe dishes in the sink waiting to be washed. I may be right in the middle of something, where I really don't want to be interrupted. I like people to call first and ask when is a good time to visit or wait for an invitation. I am home alone most of the time, so I could also be in the bathtub or shower. In general, it's not cool for people to visit me unexpectedly. I don't visit anyone without calling first, except on a few rare ocassions to my mom or best friend. I expect the same from them. I don't appreciate last minute invitations to go out somewhere either. I think it is very inconsiderate of the person. Do they ever think, maybe I already have plans! I know some people have no problem with it, but I'm definetly not one of them.
• China
20 Dec 06
i'm glad to share your ideas.good luck to you!
@epizzahut (2079)
• China
18 Dec 06
generally speaking i don't like unexpected guest, but it also depend who is the visitor, if he/she is my old friend we have not seen for many years that is another words.
• China
18 Dec 06
thanks for your good comment.
@edigital (2710)
• United States
17 Dec 06
If she is female then I do not, but if same gender then I feel embarrassing and do not show interest on them. I just continue my work what is doing or keep me engage in computer/internet. Guest go then just having a cup of tea or coffee.
• China
17 Dec 06
"If she is female then I do not."...lol.
• United States
17 Dec 06
My husband gripes when people don't visit, and when they do he gripes too. I personally love it when people just drop in. I have never been upset when I get a surprise visitor. Although, I would prefer people to let us know they are stopping by before hand, I am cordial and hospitible with a drop in.
• China
18 Dec 06
i think you are friendly and hospitable.
@moreinfo (3866)
• China
20 Dec 06
Well, sometimes you could get a happy surprise!
@gkrisiyer (393)
• India
20 Dec 06
i dont like that.i like guests to call up before they are coming.thats rude.i'd just not give them a warm welcome.
@Steflevy (59)
• France
20 Dec 06
I like having surprises...
@amoska (4)
• Kenya
20 Dec 06
I feel like killing him. Call it anger or anything but i try to do anything to get him out as fast. Also depends on the program or the book.
@cr1st1nel (3567)
• Romania
18 Dec 06
I don't like visits usually, so an unexpected visit that catches me unready to receive somebody simply makes me nervous. I don't like at all unexpected visits. I think here are some people that like unexpected ones but i am not one of them. Good luck!
@msqtech (15226)
• United States
18 Dec 06
It depends on what I am doing and who the guest is. If I dont want to visit and is unexpected I tell them I am busy and dont have time
• China
18 Dec 06
My parent-in-law often visit my family without informating us.They think it is a good manners to visit us,but we have to pretend to be friendly .It is uncomfortable . I let my husband to tell them friendly ,later,things changed.