Do you have trouble saying "I love you"?
By fazlyawi
@fazlyawi (95)
Malaysia
18 responses
@sweetboy8120 (199)
• India
12 Jan 07
I like a girl in my class ,she is very sensible,pretty and hardworking ,a reserved kind of girl.I am afraid that if say i love you to her then if her feelings get hurted then I feel very sad .That is why up till now I never propose her ,otherwise I want to propose her ,I definitely propose her someday .
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@DURGAPUR (164)
• India
15 Jan 07
yeah.this is a very good discussion for me.i have in big trouble to saying "I LOVE U".plz tell me some special ways for saying that.i love a girl a lot,she is my very nearest friend,but i can't tell her.her view for me as a good friend,but i want her as a life partner.what is the good procedure?plz plz plz tell me.i can't live without her.
@canadabis1 (1953)
• Canada
18 Dec 06
nope....never had a problem sayin it...if it is love...it should flow natural.
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@katisaurus (1038)
• Canada
18 Dec 06
I say it to one person and one person only. And everytime I say it, I mean it with every bit of my heart. I don't have trouble saying it to him, I tell him every chance I get because he works with the police force in his city, so I'm always in fear something's going to happen to him.
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@Peaches1122 (470)
• United States
18 Jan 07
No problem here. I say it when I mean it and I say it quite a lot to my loved ones. Some people could feel it misleading if for example if you said it to someone who had a crush on you but was a great friend yet you had no romantic feelings for this friend.
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@arun_ce2006 (20)
• India
23 Jan 07
yes to say i love you to girl is hard when she is infront of man it's easy to say in phone or chat.
it's meaning has misconstrued because of time pass habit of girls with boys.
@leotheking (154)
• Pakistan
18 Feb 07
well this is very hard i mean very difficiult to say i love you to any girl because some time you will get slep form her and if she can uderstand you then will accepet if she likes you and if she did'nt she become hash or become crazy she misbehave with you she say to you bla bla bla becarefull before say i love you
if you say to boy he will accepet in a second and become crazy he think woooooohh!!!!! she say to me i love you he beome very happy and who loves with girls when they try to say i love he got salp or her borther will beat him very badly and how you try to say my sister i love you
some peopel belive on love and some people do not belive some say it is fact and some say that it usless some says that it excuse to lurion of hart
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@mandala_529 (2)
• India
24 Jan 07
No,i dn't feel saying I love u to people whom i know and i really love .
@dzhuul (105)
• Malaysia
16 Apr 07
4 me this is the most hard word to say in my life xcept 4 my mom.that's b'coz i'm a very quiet man n doesn't have the communication skills to talk to girl especially to the girl that i like.i'm afraid that she might has her own boyfriend.that's what has come into my mind each time i started to think to proposed myself.
really hope that anyone who has any suggestion to overcome my weakness.....
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@dnatureofdtrain (5273)
• Janesville, Wisconsin
26 Apr 07
The only time I really struggle to say the words to a person is if they really have upset me over and over, or deeply hurt me...
Yes, Many have thrown the meaning out of context to think I love them in a way that I am not meaning.
As part of my beliefs I am suppose to always do my best to love everyone around me like family, until they have shown that they either do not want the love or do not care.
I however do not like being forced into using the words I love you, to make another feel better, I prefer using the words when I really mean it.
My Sister and I say I love you to eachother alot, and people used to call us bad names for that, and try to make us out to be dates instead of sisters, That used to upset me to so much, until I realised that most of the ones doing this were the ones who had no love in their life, so my sister showed them loving friendship, and let them get to know us, and they then realised we are very nice and kind people and we were not using love to mean in the way they had thought or imagined. - DNatureofDTrain
- DNatureofDTrain
@shelonewolf1969 (486)
• United States
18 Dec 06
I only say " I love you " to the people I love and to the people I love I have no trouble saying it too .I say things like luv you to friends it means a general love but I love you is to either my family or the special person .
@jamanrk786 (333)
• India
22 Jan 07
Sofar i am not fallin love' maybe in future it will happen to say i love you too'
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