Are you willing to change your old self for your lover?

y should i she loves me on me being who i am,and not what i should be

Depends yea ... if we are married then i will change for her ... if we are not married , you should love me what i am yea ...

be yourself

No I won't change oneself.

it really depends on what you mean by change.. there are, i believe, quite a few aspects to it.. for instance, if what you mean to say is 'grow' as a person, understand the working of my mind and that of my partner, understand the needs, then yeah.. i will definitely be open to change.. however, if you're talking about change in the sense of losing my individuality, then a big no thank you.. there are these core values that i represent, and i can't afford to let that part of me to change unless i myself decide so.. there is no way, for instance, that i would ever compromise on my principles.. in that case, i would tell them to accept the real me, like you said :-)

I'd love to say no, I won't change...but it's hard to say that statement. Everybody changes due to a life experience, being a relationship to a science experiment. Everything has it's own place in life, and everything has a meaning. Every event that takes place shapes your future in some sort of way.

I am not willing to change for anyone, take me as I am or leave it and that's what I tell everyone, I don't pretend so some one will like me, I think it's not fair to try and change someone for your own desires.

I will not change myself for no one unless I feel as if I need the change myself as of right no I am truely happy with myself and if he dont like it I will show him to the door becasue I know out there, their is someone that will love me for me!

Only the person that truly loves you will accept you for who and what you are! If they try to make you change to be what they think you should be...then, sad as it may be....they do not truly love you. BE TRUE TO YOURSELF...don't try to change who and what you are just for the sake of "love"!

we must ove and b loved the way we r. if they can't don't push yourself in them.

no, i would rather end the relationship thatn to live in a lie. being who you are is a freedom and giving that up means you dont love yourself.

if u change ur self for ur boyfrnd he is not a good frnd of u beacause its too good for u to find someone who love u as u is other frnships are all just pretending

change for the better yes, but change my whole identity would be impossible... change in such a way that I will better myself not just for my lover but for myself as well.. we are not perfect and the only thing constant in this world is change... remember loving your lover more is changing already...

If someone wants to change you, then its not you they are in love with, only someone who they think they can make you be.

I believe to be me till I don't like... and it should not come forcefully. Why should one change... they should like or love you for whatever you are..

not change myself completely ... but if she doesn't like something about me ... and it really is a bad thing ... I'll try to change it

Absolutely NOT! if my lover cant accept me for who I am and as I am then I have no business being with them and they dont deserve to be with me...

Yes you are correct. Because Love is not a thing to change other partner's life, Its something acceptable other have. May be sometimes if you love somebody that person have good things and also bad things. So we have to know thats life of her/his. And it's ok to change that person's wrong thing to good thing, that tou must have to do. But its not good thing change what you dont like things. Eg; garments, the way talking, ect... You have to respect that your partner original things and its not good thing to change he/she personality.

I will never ever change myself for someone else.I am what I am and I give a damn to what others think of me.

Its good to change yourself for your betterment but you really dont have to chance your innerself for anyone!