What do you do with the replies to your discussion on myLot?

Ireland
December 18, 2006 1:53pm CST
Do you read them all? Do you rate them? Or do you just ignore the discussion. I read all the replies. I rate them all. And then I respond to some of them. I tried responding to them all but there were just so many and yet I don't want to appear rude by not replying. What's the best thing to do?
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14 responses
• United States
18 Dec 06
I have read all of mine, & responded when it was something to respond to...one or a few words signifying yes, doesn't usually warrant a reply. I always rate them, 99% of the time wih a +. If you try to reply to all, you will be repeating yourself a lot!!
• Ireland
18 Dec 06
Yes, I try to respond to the good ones and give an + most of the time. The only time I give a - is when someone responds with a one word reply like "yes" or "no". I like people who can have a good discussion or debate. Is it possible to tell what your posts have been rated?
• United States
2 Jan 07
So far I haven't figured out a way to tell what your posts have been rated. I know you can see your "best responses" but that's it.
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@bhu143 (525)
• India
3 Jan 07
i have made only few discussion and i have only few respones so i reply and rate them
@Thomas73 (1467)
• Switzerland
3 Jan 07
I actually try to respond to as many as possible -- when it's worth an answer of course! I also rate them (needless to say, my friends usually get a positive rating, but some others do too). Unfortunately, it's pretty time-consuming and it doesn't seem to add to your existing points. I still do it out of respect for those who bothered giving me an answer to my discussions.
• Ireland
3 Jan 07
That's very good. :) Only just now I was thinking.....here I am killing myself rating everyone and responding to all my friends posts where I can.......and I've noticed a couple of them don't resond to any of my posts at all. :/ However, I haven't been here that long so maybe I just haven't discussed anything that interests them yet.
• United States
31 Dec 06
I read them, & despite that there is no payment for replies to responses, I respond to ones that warrant them. Anything that looks like just someone trying to add to their earnings with nonsense get reported & that user gets a negative rating.
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@kareng (55306)
• United States
31 Dec 06
I try to respond to all of them. Like you say it isn't always possible. Just do your best, that is all we can do!
@tammyr (5946)
• Etowah, Tennessee
1 Jan 07
I have not started many discussions but do reply to every response in each one and rate Them. A good answer will get a +..I don't have to agree with it it must be a real thought pertaining to the topic. one line, word replied( unless it is all it needs) will get a -. I prefer to see what others are talking about and answer those. If they have topics i am interested in and not alot of violations, I will add as a friend so I can keep up wiht them.My first friend was SK. I love his poetry and stalking. I do alot of that.
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• Ireland
1 Jan 07
LOL! Do you do a lot of poetry or a lot of stalking? :)
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@tammyr (5946)
• Etowah, Tennessee
4 Jan 07
I do alot of stalking when some one really get me riled up, sometimes I,be watcing for one person and another,I had not heard about will pop up over and over, so #1 gets lucky and I go after the other one. :D
1 Jan 07
well i am new to myLot and still trying to know this whole system and how it is working, Upto now i am in the process of responding every discussion i made, I think best option could be replying to as much as you can and stating in your profile the reason for not replying that is loads of posts. What do you think about it?
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• Ireland
1 Jan 07
Stating things like that in the profile is a good idea I think. Mine might end up more of a rant though. :)
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@minxy67 (2707)
25 Jan 07
I also read all replies to my discussions and I also try to answer them all,and rate them all, some people just write silly answers like yes and no, with those I just say thank you and sometimes I give a minus rating, others I give positive, it just depends.
@Pigglies (9329)
• United States
31 Dec 06
I read them all, respond to a lot of them, and rate those that are exceptional and award a best response to the best one if there is a best.
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@JC1969 (1224)
• United States
3 Jan 07
Whenever I create a discussion or give a response, I go back and check and read for new responses. I try to use this forum for what its first purpose is, and that is to promote quality discussions and conversations. You shouldn't just go back and respond with a "thank you" to those that take the time to respond to your discussions, you should try to encourage more conversation based on their responses. This way the discussion becomes meaningful. I also rate responses appropriately (-)(+), and if I discover the response or discussion is plagiarized or copyright infringed, I will report it to mylot. I also make sure to award "the best response" to a response that stands out the most. Rule of thumb, if you leave me one or two words or a simple sentence that is almost a generic response--you will get a (-), (+) only goes to those that take the time to really contribute something provoking of thought. I think when there are too many responses to your discussion thread, you can maybe respond to the first 2-3 pages of responses, and then read through the best and respond to the quality responses you get. For example, if you are left a simple response of a few words, don't waste your energy responding, but rate them appropriately. There are too many people on here earning off of nonsense.
@tba123 (457)
• United States
31 Dec 06
I read and rate each response. I try to respond back as much as I can but sometimes all I have the time to do is to post on the page that I have read and rated each persons response.
@Eskimo (2315)
3 Jan 07
So far I've only managed to write one with 3 responses so far, and I've put comments on them all. I think a lot will depend on how many responses you get, whether you would have time to read, rate and respond to. 4 or 5 as a response to a discussion should be ok to reply to but if you got over 50 then it could be quite difficult. I don't think it is rude to not reply to them all. There is also the time factor, you wrote this 3 weeks ago, and I'm only looking at it now. How relevant is it to reply after this length of time?
• Ireland
3 Jan 07
I have no idea. I see that there are discussions that have been started months ago that are still getting replies. I'm not sure how it works. :/
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• Ireland
3 Jan 07
Oh.....except that I can say it's relevant to me because I genuinely wanted to know what people thought on this issue. That's why I keep checking back. :)
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@jackf501 (853)
• Malaysia
31 Dec 06
i read them all..i respond some of them..i rate some of them
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@tictac714 (975)
• United States
2 Jan 07
I read them all, and rate them all, but you just can't respond to all of them unless you want to repeat yourself a whole bunch of times, which seems pointless.
• India
3 Jan 07
im new in my lot actually i also need to read the replies that i get but wat i do... i started some discussions and nobody replies for that what do i do to get replies
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• Ireland
3 Jan 07
There isn't anything you can do. Just try discussing something else. Sometimes I find that my topics start getting replies about a week later. :)