Fights with the Girlfriend...
@xmanofsteel69 (458)
Canada
December 18, 2006 3:29pm CST
Okay, I seem to somehow get into all these fights with my girlfriend recently. I guess I'm looking for some advice on how to make things better. I guess I'm quite pathetic like that...
Anyways! Onto the problem. For the past semester at school, and few friends and I play Super Smash Brothers Melee on Gamecube in our school's cafeteria (might I add, I have a first period spare). Recently we've been playing right to the bell, so I can't be at her first periods door. This has happened for the past while, as well as me going out to try to get a Nintendo Wii, so I don't see her at all till lunch time. I know it's bad, but I always tell her what I'm doing or where I am, and it now seems that she got REALLY mad at me for that today.
I was in the cafe, playing SSBM, the bell rings, I go to her locker, and she won't talk to me. She ignores me as I walk her to her second period class, and then for the rest of the day. I had planned about a week ago to go to her house after school to give her some flowers and such (just to be cute...you know) but now she's not wanting to see me.
I know I did a rude thing by not being there when I could, but am I really in the wrong that much? Especially if I tell her what's happening and if I'm going somewhere? Also, what can I do to help this problem...I thought it was small, but obviously not to her...
1 response
@sedel1027 (17846)
• Cupertino, California
18 Dec 06
What you did was not that wrong, but it is HUGE deal for a teenage girl to be snubbed by her boyfriend. If you tell her (or anyone) that you will be somewhere at a specific time, you shoudl show up. That is your responsibility. If you don't understand why that hurt her, then you probably should not be in a relationship wtih anyone. If you give her a bit of time and some space, she will cool down. I suggest in the mean time to send flowers to her house with a nice card. She may not want to see you, but I bet she will accept your flowers and a sincere apology. Good Luck!
@xmanofsteel69 (458)
• Canada
18 Dec 06
Thanks! And also, just so you know, I never said I would meet her at her first period, it's just something I did to be nice and help carry her books.


