Video games

playing video games - addicted
@rhorry93 (164)
United States
December 18, 2006 4:21pm CST
How much is too much. I am a father of 2 I work full time. i play about 2 hours worth of video games a day M-F, Weekends don't ask. Is that too much. Sometimes I feel like I could be spending my time more productively. What do you think?
15 responses
@lisan22 (191)
• United States
19 Dec 06
Are you married? You work 40 hours a week then you spend 10 hours a week (m-f) playing video games. You have 120 hours from Monday to Friday. Let's say you spend approximately 8 hours a night sleeping and an hour every two days for bathroom/shower. Let's also say you spend about 1 hour a day eating your meals. This leaves you with about 2 1/2 hours to spend with your kids Monday thru Friday. If you ask me, you're wasting your time playing video games and you should be spending a fifth of that time playing games the ENTIRE week, weekends included. Of course, you can continue to ignore realty and your children and play video games instead. It's an easy thing to do.
@rhorry93 (164)
• United States
19 Dec 06
I know I will eventually step into reality and take your advice. I don't want to miss my kids growing up
• United States
19 Dec 06
Well said!!!
@deepakg4 (895)
• India
19 Dec 06
yes. video games are waste our times.
• United States
19 Dec 06
I would think it depends on when you play video games. Is it after the kids go to bed? Then you are spending quality time with them. Everyone needs some form of escapism. It doesn't hurt anything as long as you understand that the games are just that a game. Besides, why do you think people read fiction? To escape life for a little bit.
@Jshean20 (14349)
• Canada
19 Dec 06
I don't think that spending 2 hours per night is too much video game time. You work full time and deserve to have some fun, if videogames is what you enjoy than I don't see a problem. I suppose that playing video games is the same as watching TV..no big deal in my view. As long as it's not taking over your life and you quit your job to play video games, you're in good shape hehe.
@rhorry93 (164)
• United States
19 Dec 06
I agree. Better than stopping at the bar afterwork and tossing a few back. At least I am at home.
• United States
19 Dec 06
As long as the kids/wife are getting lots of attention, I don't see the problem. No different than watching tv, playing on the computer, or reading. You could do the games when everyone else is sleeping too. I wouldn't worry about it!
@rhorry93 (164)
• United States
19 Dec 06
Yea that is true I usually stay up later than anybody else
@nhtpscd (1416)
• Australia
19 Dec 06
I let my kids only play on the weekends. I myself don't play them..Yep I think there is a limit even for dads. Spend more with the kids.
@rhorry93 (164)
• United States
19 Dec 06
Can't spend enough time with the kids they grow up so fast
@vijaygame (758)
• India
19 Dec 06
Being a father of 2, i suggest u try to send that 2 hours with ur children. Try to develop a good bond with them, u need to peep into their lives and mold their habits. Remember u can only bend a tree when it is a plant. Children is a huge responsibility.
@rhorry93 (164)
• United States
19 Dec 06
this is true, I do my best unfortunately children don't come witha manual
• Singapore
19 Dec 06
well, i dont see any problems in just relaxing after work...but then, play after you finish doing what you have to do, of course! dont be guilty for loving yourself, my friend! :D
@rhorry93 (164)
• United States
19 Dec 06
I like your thinking :)
@jewel76 (2305)
• Canada
19 Dec 06
You could be doing something more productive, but if this is what you like then, do just that. The only time it'd be wrong is if you have a wife and kids, and then spend 2 hours a day playing video games instead of spending quality time with them.
@rash219 (808)
• United States
19 Dec 06
well if u say ur a father of 2 u could spend some quality time with ur kids unless ur kids love playin 2 which wuld a great way to bond.........but 2 hr/day i dont think is tat much...
@motubhai (235)
• India
19 Dec 06
I agree with you & suggest u to spent more time on mylot.
@sunnypub (2128)
• United States
19 Dec 06
Everybody needs some down time to do what they love doing. I don't see a problem with it as long as you and not putting off doing what needs to be done. Also you could try to get your kids into as well and then it is not only fun for you but quality time with your kids. I don't play video games every day but when I do play it is for longer than 2 hours. My sister and I can sit down and play for eight hours straight, which is why we are selective on when we play. relaxing yourself and destressing is productive, so don't feel bad about it.
@rhorry93 (164)
• United States
19 Dec 06
I agree It is a huuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuge stress reliever
• Canada
19 Dec 06
I am a huge gamer, myself. I enjoy a nice pleasant couple rounds of Halo 2 and Gears of War, as well as a couple hours of gameplay into Final Fantasy XII. I don't see any harm in taking a couple hours a day and play some video games...as long as they're good video games ;-)
@itsjustmeb (1212)
• Canada
19 Dec 06
Hey if everything is done man, then go for it :)
@rhorry93 (164)
• United States
19 Dec 06
no kidding. What is better playing videogames late at night that actually stimulate my mind or watching America's next top model???? :)
@mmorrow (16)
• United States
19 Dec 06
i definately think if you have a wife and children, it is too much. You should be spending time with your children until their bedtime, which I am assuming would only be an hour or so after you get home,, and then you should spend some time with your wife. Maybe you should dedicate some weekend time or maybe a 1/2 hour a couple days a week to video games. I guarantee it would make for a happier home life.
@rhorry93 (164)
• United States
19 Dec 06
you could be right.
@turtle11 (331)
• India
19 Dec 06
Hey I like playing game in my Playstation 3... Its fun n relaxing... U tend to forget all ur tensions.