Do you Wanna have Children?

Malaysia
September 22, 2006 11:46pm CST
We've been married for over 3 years now but have decided that children are out of the question. I'm very afraid of not being able to provide the best for them as we're just making ends meet. Every time there's a family gathering the same old question pops up "So when do we see little ones?" or worst "Until NOW you still haven't worked at it?" Sometimes these comments can be so degrading.
1 response
@MINDY0882 (2304)
• United States
4 Oct 06
yes we have 3, we had it rough there for a while being my hubby only made 300 a week and i was staying home with the kids, but we made it . are kids are still happy whether we had money or not. love is what matter i think. I know it helps when u have children but i dont thanks u should decide to not have them just because of money. some do i guess though but it has all been great having kids even when times was tough
• Malaysia
4 Oct 06
Thanks Mindy for your kind words. Not now but perhaps when the maternal instincts kick in :)
@MINDY0882 (2304)
• United States
4 Oct 06
yes , your welcome good luck in what ever yall dedide