What's the best thing about being married?

Philippines
December 20, 2006 8:09am CST
say your piece please....
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16 responses
@anup12 (4177)
• India
12 Jan 07
Sharing is the best of all that I think in a marriage and taking care of each other's sentiments
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• Philippines
12 Jan 07
ok... well i think its important that you share your thoughts to your partner too, weather it might be good or bad.. and grow with it,. thanks a lot for the response^_^
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• Philippines
12 Jan 07
the best thing about marriage is that you can make things legally, and it is blessed by god those who are married before they make a children...if you go into marriage you really love the person whom you will marry...
• Philippines
12 Jan 07
i guess legality is just secondary... what matters is the comittment that your going to give to that person of the rest of your life... and i trully believe that we should only settle with the person that we trully love... hope you'd find your match too(naks) thanks for the response^_^
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@gabs8513 (48686)
• United Kingdom
7 Jan 07
Well I have to say that I am not a good one to comment on this as my Ex changed once we got married and not for the Good either so to me there was no best thing
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• Philippines
7 Jan 07
ok. i could understand your sentiments.. i respect your feelings and i still hope for the best for you dear.. thanks for posting in this discussion..
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@Ashida (1370)
• United States
6 Jan 07
For me the best thing about being married is just being with someone who loves and accepts me for who I am. My wife is my partner, my lover, my friend and confidant. I can share things wth her that no one else knows. And she can share things with me as well. It's just kinda cool knowing that there's someone out there in this big old world who cares.
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• Philippines
7 Jan 07
wow that was one of the nicest things to say... im happy that your getting all the kind of love that you deserve and so with your wonderful partner... cheers for the years to come. thanks for responding to this discussion^_^
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@fionixe (75)
• Philippines
12 Feb 07
hmm.. me? not yet married though, but thinking about the consequences of being married in the future also gets me, well, scared (for a lack of a better term). ^_^ so, for that topic, i'd go for companionship. because it's what bond couples together right? :)
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• Philippines
13 Feb 07
umm yes, but eventually you may want to settle with the person that ou really loved, and then as the years goes by, by then you can really say what were the good things about being married. i know that you cannot share some of your personal experience about it, and just take your time to get to know the person that your with right now, because once that your really married, you cannot brake the chain just like that, because you really need to work things out as much as possible, comprmosing each other is also a good receipe.. thanks for posting^_^
• Philippines
14 Feb 07
thanks for the advice. :)
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@beeatch (27)
• Netherlands
18 Feb 07
having to come home to someone you care so much, having to spend time together, having to share your deepest feelings to your spouse, and my favorite is being cuddled (or having to cuddle) at night, hmmmm.....
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• Philippines
18 Feb 07
hmmmmmm.... that's really one of the nicest part isnt it? ^_^ that's just indeed true that at the end of the day, knowing that there's somebody waiting for you to come home, relieves it all... thanks for posting and happy earnings^_^
@weemam (13372)
15 Feb 07
I have been happily married to my best friend and my soul mate for almost 46 years now and I would say the best things were , a best friend a lover someone you can tell your secrets too , someone you can share anything with , someone you can trust and someone you can love with all your heart and that love will be returned more and more xx
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• Philippines
16 Feb 07
wow!!!! that was just amazing..... gosh, i guess its really true that one of the good receipe of an everlasting relationship is that you also have to be friends, and i really believe that it really works for you guys.. that's really admirable... more years to come.. thanks for posting^_^
@nudshanie (359)
• Malaysia
22 Jan 07
The best thing about being married is you have someone who really cares about you. All they do is about you and your kids...and the best part is to have our own babies.
• Philippines
22 Jan 07
wow that's really sweet...^_^ thanks for posting..
@_hope_ (3902)
• Australia
18 Feb 07
Well once i would of said the thought of sharing everything together the family the chores absolutlely everything and most of all the rest of my life with my partener but how things have changed over the past year Now i just have no answers for you because i`m at a loss as to the end of my marriage after 26yrs together and five children ,something has gone wrong we don`t do anything together anymore not even communicate so for me it`s nothing
• Philippines
18 Feb 07
oh.... so sorry to hear that, 26 years, there must be something that's still there, i mean don't you think you can settle this? i think when you got to patch things up again you can still keep the fire burning... oh i really dont know what went wrong, but i still hope that you guys can talk... who knows..... you can still meand your broken hearts, i think forgiveness is also a key.. all the best and HOPE for you dear.. thanks for posting, and all the best for you...
@Syphon (286)
• Germany
12 Jan 07
The best thing is that you are paying less taxes.........nothing else. come on, don't come here with things like love and so........
• Philippines
12 Jan 07
thanks for posting.
@villageanne (8553)
• United States
23 Jan 07
I love being married. I have been married for 28 years and he is still my best frined. It is nice to know that you are not alone in this crazy world. We do everything together.
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• Philippines
23 Jan 07
wow that's really nice, 28 years is such a long time.. im glad that your still happy together. more to come^_^ thank you so much for the response^_^
@sims1955 (36)
• United States
21 Jan 07
The best thing about being married is I married my best friend. In life it is like a role you have to be Friends, Lovers, and then in old age you are Best Friends again! Think about it!
• Philippines
22 Jan 07
well that's really nice! its really niee to know that you became friends first before you became lovers in the end. way to go!!! more years to come... thanks for the response^_^
@charms88 (7538)
• Philippines
13 Feb 07
When you decide to settle down, you should expect a lot of good and worst things that are perfectly normal. I've been married for 8 years now and I had seen just about everything in my husband. But nothing beats having a husband who can give you security, comfort, caring and loving you no matter who and what you are.
• Philippines
13 Feb 07
awwww, that's just so sweet.. 8 years is quite a long time already, and i hope that you can still have more wonderful years to come... cheers and all the best for you^_^
@kagandahan (1327)
• Philippines
14 Feb 07
what the best thing about being married? my husband the best part of my everyday.marriage is tough but he makes it seems like everything will be ok.i could not ask for more..he is my life and whatever trouble we will encounter,i know he will always be there for our family.
• Philippines
14 Feb 07
awww that's just so sweet too.. its nice to know that marriage works because the husbands extends some efforts to. More years to come and thanks for sharing^_^
• United States
3 Mar 07
Being in love and having someone to love you back for the rest of your life. I always look forward to the days when my husband and I are alone and we can just hold each other all day, and then the kids walk in...... I love my kids. I love being married to my husband. He is what keeps me going. I would have never thought that love could be so grand.
@vyaasrad (565)
• India
22 Jan 07
sorry i never know about it