Trouble gettting pregnant it is not fair

I know where you are coming from we had to ttc for a while too. After 13 months of trying and 2 m/c's I conceived my beautiful baby boy, and all those months of trying seemed like nothing. All of the good things in life take time. I used a website called fertility friend and it helped me out a lot, but I didnt actually get pregnant with my son until i stopped obssing over it and stopped "trying" so much.

My partner & i were together for 8 years before we fell pregnant - please don't think it wont happen after trying for just a few months - it's all about timing!!! I was also told by the Dr that the female body can sometimes reject a baby if it isn't able to carry - which is probably why it took so long for us to conceive but don't give up. Some couple can take years, others just a couple of attempts it all depends on the person & like i said earlier - your timing! If you were on the pill or something like that, even after you stop it can take a few months before the affects of that wear off. I do agree that it's wrong for people to get pregnant just coz they can though, i have family members like that - 2 of which act like it's a competition to see who gets pregnant first & who has more kids. GOOD LUCK & be patient, these things can just sometimes take a while!

I dont think this is about fair it is about health. Life is not fair but we all deal with the problems we are to have. I think relaxation and consideration of life may help.

Sorry that you are having this problem. And, I agree with you statement. But, life isn't fair, and people are selfish. Good luck dear. I hope you will get pregnant soon.

I know where you're coming from. My husband and I have been trying for a year. The hardest part was seeing a close friend of mine and her husband get pregnant (when they didn't want too), and watch her carry her daughter to term. They now have a beautiful baby girl... But I'm hoping that I'm currently pregnant. I haven't gotten my period and it is usually goes like clock work. I tried this new diet. Started eating healthier. Exercising. Taking vitamin pills. Drinking more water.

I agree with you completely. I miscarried two years ago and since then have been trying to get pregnant again. In the time I've been trying I've seen almost 15 people get pregnant, most of which didn't even want a baby in the first place. The only advice I can give you is to not stress too hard. If it's meant to be it will happen, If not then I'm sure there is something else in the plans for you. Good Luck!