I think we need a new term "baby's momma's"

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You hear all the time about the father's that leave a girlfriend with a child and don't want to care about them. But how about the women that claim to be "mothers" but are out there drinking (sometimes they did it while pregnant), partying, doing drugs, sleeping around with everyone, and getting into fights while they already have a young child and are counting on relatives to help raise the child, or living on welfare? Sorry, but to me both the terms father and mother mean you do the best for your child, and you put your child's care above any needs of your own. The women that are describing above would not fall into the category of "mothers" and in my opinion should be called "baby's momma's", the funny thing is they are usually the same ones that refer to the male they had the baby with as "baby daddy". What do you all think?