Should you give someone a second chance in a relationship

United States
December 20, 2006 5:27pm CST
I wondered if its worth it, like if your friends crap on you, or your girl friends cheats on you, is it worth it. I know your told sometimes to forgive and forget, or you going to be a fool to do so.
5 responses
• India
21 Dec 06
when it comes to love and relatoships it always better to give a second chance.
@koltrone (264)
• United States
21 Dec 06
I do forgive but I have the difficulty to forget so its not worth for me giving a second chance if at the back of my head what he/she did to me is still there.
@maryannemax (12156)
• Sweden
20 Dec 06
you weigh things first. you know the person so, think! is she worth another chance? is she really sorry for what she's done or is she just trying to trick you? is she means she's really sorry and promise you to be a better girlfriend, then give her the second chance. if not, dont' give her the second chance. she's not worth it.
@MissGia (955)
• United States
20 Dec 06
I'm a firm believer of second chances, no one is perfect and mistakes will be made. It's really up to you to decided if they are being sincere or not. I've been given second chances with friends and due to those second chances i have had friends for years and years.
@acosjo (1903)
• Canada
21 Dec 06
At the end of the day you have to feel comfortable with your decision. Ask yourself if you want to give her another chance, just ask yourself. You'll be surprised that the answer is right in front of you, don't be afraid to look. I've done this to myself and am amazed at my initial almost automatic answers. I can say 99% of the time, my first answer is the right one. Good luck.