do you have any regrets? Do you wish you could have a do over on

That's a difficult question that I have asked myself a million times. Part of me wishes I had never married my first husband. I've been locked in a 27 year nightmare and divorce has not ended it. But the awfulness is outweighed easily by the blessing of having my four kids who wouldn't be who they are if I hadn't married him. Of course, they have suffered too, but I still could never go back and undo something that would make it so they were never born. I don't think anything could ever trump that. I would go through whatever hell necessary.

yes i wish that i haven't met my 1st love because it's the beginning of my misserable life. :(

I wish I did not elope and drop out of college to get married the first time around.