I slapped my girl friend last weak. She is not speaking properly with me now!

@tsprabhu (705)
India
December 21, 2006 9:16pm CST
Last weak, when I was playing video games in my PC, she kept on disturbing me by switching off the monitor. I pushed her down. She broke my mobile phone immediately and I slapped her so hard that she fainted down! I explained her to take it playfully and asked her to forget about that. She said ok. But I feel a lot of difference in the way she speaks with me. She is not speaking naturally. How to know whether she is compromised or not?
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@johnalan (64)
• Malaysia
22 Dec 06
As a guy, we are never never slap a girl or hit a girl. Girl are here to be love, to be care, to be appreciate them. Don't because of a GAME, you slap her and make her heart broken. Although she said OK to you, but actually in her heart, it is like a broken glass that never ever be fix again. Now she is just waiting the right time to dump you. If a girl don't speak much to you, means you are already out of her heart. As a guy, we don't ever ever hit a girl. She is not compromised with you, she is just too love you and waiting a better chance to break up with you. Once you hit a her once, you will hit her again and again next time, you don't deny it because in your heart you think she will understand you and forgive you and that make you have the intention to hit her next time. SO if you want to keep this relationship, you must do something to win her heart back and never never never hit girl. Please, as a guy, we must love the girl we found and care for them.
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@tooblue (143)
• United States
23 Dec 06
that is beautiful...Its wonderful to see men that still have such high regards for women today...any girl that you are with, can only be so lucky... :)
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@Lunnazol (296)
• United States
22 Dec 06
She shouldn't be speaking to you at all. You should have never hit her no matter what the circumstance was. That was absolutly out of place. Shame on you. I don't blame her for acting different. I would have dumped your @ss right after I came to!!
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@tsprabhu (705)
• India
22 Dec 06
Ok! I understand.... But she broke my new mobile phone for no reason. Leave it off, I am asking for a solution.........
@clownfish (3272)
• United States
22 Dec 06
What's more important? A thing that can be replaced or a human being that cannot be replaced? You have a warped sense of what's important in this world.
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@birthlady (5609)
• United States
22 Dec 06
I agree.
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@kesfylstra (1868)
• United States
22 Dec 06
Amen, Lunn. You act as if she has done something wrong. You don't touch someone you love like that. It's called abuse, and I hope she gets far away from you.
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@emisle (3822)
• Ireland
23 Dec 06
You hit her so hard she fainted?! There's a difference between a slap and a full force blow, which is what you seem to have used. If my boyfriend ever did that to me i would never forgive him, she may have broke your phone but it was not of major importance. Shame on you for the way you reacted and if she ever forgives you you are extremely lucky.
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• United States
22 Dec 06
What? You DON'T want her to leave you? THEN DON'T FRICKIN' SLAP HER, YOU MORON! Oy... some people... If I were her, I would've PUNCHED you. I don't do no sissy slapping. You're lucky she's even still around and talking to you at all. She could easily stop talking to you PERIOD and leave you like she should have.
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@tsprabhu (705)
• India
22 Dec 06
Noooooo... That should not happen!
@krizz420 (4385)
• Canada
22 Dec 06
You should have never laid your hands on her like that. Now she's probably scared of you.
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@ljcapps (1925)
• United States
23 Dec 06
HOW TO MAKE HER FEEL NORMAL!!!??? You ignorant, self-absorbed, malicious @SSHOLE! You want to make her feel normal? Come over here let me knock you areound a bit and see if you EVER fell normal when I am around. That look in her eye, it is called FEAR! You want her to feel normal leave her, get yourself some anger management classes(that might help), Never see her again. You say you don't want her to leave, here's a thought, Why weren't you thinking that before you hit her! Now thanks to you she will always be afraid of when you, and whoever she does end up with when she leaves your sorry @ss, snap next! And all this over a stupid game that, more than likely could have been saved and resumed again later, YOU couldn't pull yourself away from to give her a little attention. To everyone else that reads this comment I apologize, I get a little riled up when someone hits a lady
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@tsprabhu (705)
• India
24 Dec 06
I never knew that, there would be a mis-understanding between us or I would hit her. Everything happened in a few seconds. I realised that I struck her badly, only when she fainted. I agree, it was too late for me to realise everything.
@tsprabhu (705)
• India
22 Dec 06
How to make her feel normal again??? Iam just thinking over it....
• United States
22 Dec 06
You are a disgrace to men. I hope she has some very big brothers to teach you a lesson. You NEVER hit a girl. Not if you love them. Once you hit a girl she can never trust you again. And once a hitter always a hitter.
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@tsprabhu (705)
• India
24 Dec 06
No! I am not always a hitter. Everything started playfully..
@lauriefnp (5111)
• United States
22 Dec 06
I don't blame her a bit; if it were me, I would have come to, called the police, and then dumped you!! No matter what the circumstances, you need to learn how to control your anger better. Your girlfriend playfully switching off your monitor while you were playing a video game is certainly not a reason to abuse her. Yes, pushing her down forcefully is abuse; they call it domestic violence, and it is illegal. Grow up and get a grip on yourself. Maybe you should leave the games alone for a while and enroll in an anger management class. I'm sorry that this sounds harsh, but you need to stop sulking and feeling sorry for yourself about her "acting differently" towards you; you need to realize that you could have hurt her very badly.
@tsprabhu (705)
• India
22 Dec 06
I understand! I behaved violently and I feel sorry for it now..
@Jshean20 (14349)
• Canada
22 Dec 06
Well it doesn't sound like it was a playful fight at all, if she actually fell down! She was probably scared to tell you that she doesn't agree with what happened (that she really didn't see it as being playful). Maybe you should consider getting some counceling...just for yourself or for the both of you as a couple. Your actions suggest that anger management might be in order for yourself. Good luck working things out.
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@vipul20044 (5794)
• India
22 Dec 06
Buddy siriously it was your fault all the way Anyways, just try to console her with your words Tell her and try and mean it, as in It didnt make you much difference and just fill that in her mind Try and assure her that everything is alright and tell her you are sorry for your actions
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@blueman (16509)
• India
22 Dec 06
i do not think the need to slap a female especially if she happens to be your girlfriend, i would better prefer to stay with my girlfriend then play video game.
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@Marie2473 (8512)
• Sweden
22 Dec 06
I hope she leaves you coz that IS abuse even if she broke your dear cellphone. She broke it after u pushed her down and that u shouldn´t have done in the first place - however i understand that u got angry, still it is no excuse of slapping someone so they faint. That is just wrong and for her own sake I hpe that she will leave you and maybe then u will realise that that is no way to treat the woman you claim to love!
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@mamashane (1140)
• United States
22 Dec 06
Are you for real? That's abuse! You should be in JAIL!!!
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@birthlady (5609)
• United States
22 Dec 06
Fainted for two minutes? You should go directly to jail, do not pass go, do not collect $200- you are abusive and I hope she leaves you forever, you deserve to be in jail before you hurt her or another woman again!
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• United States
22 Dec 06
I agree. This moron should be JAIL and that's exactly what I would've done if I were her. I would've called the cops.
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@tsprabhu (705)
• India
22 Dec 06
No! Don't say like that. She just fainted for 2 minutes... I made her to eat some food after that and she was alright smiling at me again in few minutes... But, I think she is afraid of me...
• United States
22 Dec 06
if you smacked me, i would act differently torwards you too.. why would you ever slap her? over a stupid phone? are you that foolish? Dont be suprise if she kicks you to the curb in the next few months.
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@chunkers (1050)
• United States
22 Dec 06
First of all, I believe you are pulling one of my tricks with this post and trying to get a rise out of people. If so, you should have added a disclaimer to the end of the post. However, this is NOT a laughing matter. If you are being for real, she should have gotten a baseball bat and opened up a little piece of your skull. Obviously, you are not beating a full-blooded Navajo Indian, like my Gaylene! Cause she would not have let you get away with THAT! What you did is called "domestic violence". Let me spell that out for you in case you're not that bright: d-o-m-e-s-t-i-c, second word, v-i-o-l-e-n-c-e! There are laws to protect women from people like that...and I hope she reported it if you did hit her. If you are trying to get a rise out of people, this is NOT the way to do it! I believe that, either way, this is a very foolish post. I'm just sitting here shaking my head. I can't believe you would think that hitting a woman, for any reason, is acceptable! You better hope she doesn't wake you up in the middle of the night with that baseball bat!
• United States
22 Dec 06
you will not find a good solution to this. You have broken her trust!! You are not supposed to do that to women! That is so cruel!!! And what did you do it for? You're new cellphone? How old are you again? My question to you is.. Is your phone that worth it to loose someone you love over?
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@tsprabhu (705)
• India
24 Dec 06
No. She is worthy, not my phone...
@GLOBALSHEEN (1005)
• India
24 Dec 06
Dont slap anybody in life.
@tsprabhu (705)
• India
24 Dec 06
Yes! I wont.
@balabrahmam (1071)
• India
24 Dec 06
just say clearly what is inyour mind clarify now only if she heart really you will really feeled later so clear the doughtdirectly because ladies are very dangeorus so becarefull with them
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@tsprabhu (705)
• India
14 Jan 07
Ok!
• United States
24 Dec 06
F*ck a phone! you dont put your hands on someone else for no reason as a man you should know better. If you cant handle youe anger in a better wat then she should just leave you. The first time you hit me would have been the last time you saw me.
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• India
24 Dec 06
yesreally your seading is correct my opinion is also same
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• United States
24 Dec 06
I probably would hve tried to kill you. I dont play hitting games at all. they can get serious real quick
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@gunchu (154)
• India
23 Dec 06
appologise to her . she is hurt talk to her . she needs you .
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@tsprabhu (705)
• India
24 Dec 06
No, I am not mad of playing games. But everything was a co-incedence which shouldn't have happened. Its very unfortunate that, we had a mis-understanding for the first time.
• Philippines
22 Dec 06
oh man... your rude! please dont treat women like that. that will bring you a lot of trouble, beaten up or end in jail. blame it to your single PUSH. hope soon will be okay.
@tsprabhu (705)
• India
22 Dec 06
I want to bring this problem to an end, so that I'll be kind with her from now onwards..
@tsprabhu (705)
• India
22 Dec 06
I am searching for a good solution for this..... Please!!
• Canada
23 Dec 06
Try anger management classes and a good therapist. Then duct tape your limbs to something stationary so you can never do it again.
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@diansinta (7544)
• Indonesia
24 Dec 06
em....im so surprised that slap her...dont eat too much red meat and alkohol, ok? otherwise no body gonna love you anymore
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@tsprabhu (705)
• India
25 Dec 06
I don't consume alchohol and I don't eat red meat too.