Does Love always HURT

India
December 22, 2006 10:54am CST
Does Love always HURT Is it true that love always hurt....??? is it true that the one we love always goes away.....??? it it true that we can never have the one we love.....??? is it true that love is something not practical in todays world....?? All love stories in history always had a bad ending.....so where does love stand as of today??? Any of you really fallen in love can answer ...and all seraching for the truth can listen!!!!
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@chance00 (3332)
• United States
22 Dec 06
Not at all! Love should never hurt.True love will never hurt you,you may hurt it and do not like the answers it gives sometimes but it should never hurt you.I think the probelm is people do not know what true love is and the sad thing is many of us will never find it.
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@IceyChan (101)
• Hong Kong
23 Dec 06
Yeah~I agreen with you
• India
23 Dec 06
Now, only affection/attraction hurts! yes it may b true that ur love goes away! we can have our love! Love is impractical...not phelosophy! Love always stands high..no matter...its time independent. Once i was in love with a girl, 2day she is not with me...it has been passed 5 Yrs..i still love her...don't know abt her?
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@Brandi06 (2227)
• United States
23 Dec 06
i think that it does
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• United States
23 Dec 06
at some point in time love does hurt.but it is up to you if you let it or not.and not all love stories have bad endings.
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@limcyjain (3519)
• India
23 Dec 06
not always but when you are in true love and your loved one is suffering that is the time when you really get hurt. I have one love my husband and i firmly believe his love is me and only me. He dosent want to go out alone. When i go to my mothers house he loose weight by 3 to 4 kgs in a weeks time. you says true love is not possible.
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• Canada
23 Dec 06
Love is as much a hurting as loving. When you love someone, there is always heartache attached to it. It's given. Love is equivalent to hurt. Suppose there is a couple and there is intense love between them. But slowly, when one partner shows interest to one friend, the other partnet gets jealous. And they started hurting each other.
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@maryannemax (12168)
• Sweden
22 Dec 06
i've fallen inlove 14 times. the first 13 were unhappy relationships. i always end up getting dumped for another woman. so, i understand your question. sometimes, we really get hurt in the process. we forgive and still get hurt. there were times when i thought that love is so unfair. life itself is unfair. i close my door but i kept my windows opened to possibilities of finding someone who will love me for who i am, who i was and who i will be in the future. and i am glad i finally found him. he loves me beyond compare. and i'm gonna move with him to sweden next year. not all relationships have a bad ending. sometimes, we're just not right for that certain person. as the song says: one day my prince will come." and he will really come not too soon. not too late. just perfect. then you can say, "life is fair after all!"
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@mauier113 (688)
• Philippines
22 Dec 06
Maybe love always hurt. Because we can feel the pain if the one who hurts you is the you love and trust. The world we live in now is the time when we most need love. We can't say that love in history had always a sad ending, it's just that maybe it had a greater impact, that's why it's the ones always remembred. I'm inlove love, and its one of the greatest feeling. It makes you happy or sad but still loving someone can let you learn to be unselfish.
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@dominican (202)
• Philippines
22 Dec 06
In loving its normal that we might get hurt along the way. But it doesn't necessarily mean that most of the time your hurting ur in pain. If love is true, you'll find love and see love more on the happiness side than that of the pain.
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@imadriscoll (2230)
• United States
22 Dec 06
If you really love someone then of course there will be times when one or both of you are hurt. Sometimes because of misunderstanding or miscommunication, other times because you tend to hurt those closest to you. You'll know that it's true love when you find the one who'll forgive you and love you even when you hurt them and you'll be willing to do the same for them. All things in life that are worth having are worth working for, even when it hurts!
@cherhost (1072)
• United States
22 Dec 06
Yes love does always hurt. You may have the one you want but at some point in time they will hurt you. I am not saying that everyone is like this but there will be a point in time where you are hurt... even if you are married and it is till the end of time thing... one person will die before the other. You see where I am going with this? Love will always be in the world. If there is no love there will be no children and no happiness. I have been in love and still am in love. The one thing that I know is that even tho he is a good guy and he does what he needs to for his family... he still hurts me at some point. I do the samefor him.
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@Serjas (2328)
• India
22 Dec 06
there is a film in india called "kabhi Khushi Kabhi Gham" which means "soometimes happy,sometimes sad" . this s my answer ....love can somtimes hurt and sometimes it gives all the joy....so if u have any problem just think der ll b a happiness thank u
• Indonesia
22 Dec 06
hehehe... I watch that movie too. sometimes, e can learn from movies...
• Portugal
24 Dec 06
sometimes it really hurt me =(
@shilpa28k (1737)
• India
24 Dec 06
I don't think so
@itsmepinky (1301)
• India
24 Dec 06
it does and it can be very painful
@fineline (91)
• Thailand
23 Dec 06
Real love never fails you. Love is very patient, very kind. It is never envious, never rude....it never gives you heartaches. It never hurts you.This is what I've learned in the Bible. It's found in 1 Corinthians 13. Read it full details.
@feralcat (426)
• Canada
23 Dec 06
I think to love is to grieve. but to love again is a wonderful thing. My bond with animals, the love I feel for them is different then that of what I have with people and in all honesty the hurt I have felt from losing pets that I love has been worse then any hurt I have felt from the loss of love with people. I also think there are various depths of love. Unconditional love is one that is hard to come by. The only times I know what unconitional love truly is is from the love I give and recieve from the animals in my life; people come with condition.
• India
23 Dec 06
I have fallen in love and seriously i don't ever feel like that i have fallen but it makes me feel that i want to rise and m trying my best to..... man when you fall in love its so beautifull.... u fell that there is no one else like you... you geta new aim to live.... and as far as it goes for getting or not getting the person you love... if you really love someone it doesn't matter if that person goes or stays cause if you love the person that much you have that person in your blood... in your heart... that person is never far... really..... and moreover when you ove someone you always try to become and do whatever it takes to make and keep that person yours... FOREVER....... for me my love has shown me the way to move forward........ to fight for the best....... and live for it...... I LOVE MY GIRLFRIEND A LOT........
@IceyChan (101)
• Hong Kong
23 Dec 06
Uncertain of.The first-time of my first love is very happy.Happy and sad...But still adapted till the last.If that is your most favorite person of words, once break up you and then will is very sad.This is just a maimed reason
• India
23 Dec 06
falling in luv is not a bad thing.but the most important is that never be in trap.but there is some luv which r just for timepass .they 'll surely cheat us .if a person's love is true then he 'll never cheat anyone or his luv.he cant cheat her.but i agree that the climax of ever legedry luvstory is tragic.,