My friend abused me!!

India
December 23, 2006 5:01am CST
This guy, whom i know since a year, asked me out a few days ago. Since, I dont like him, I refused and I told him I told him that we can be only friends. But he did not agreed. I stopped taking his calls. Today, he met me online. He told me that he is very hurt and all is because of me. I told him that i was never interested in himand I never got that friendly with him. But, when I told him that I am seeing someone else and love my boyfriend very much, He got abusive and said dirty things about me( which I can't type here). Till now, nobody has talked to me in this way!!I can't think of anything else, since then. I m very disturbed and I dont have anyone to talk to. My best friend has gone out, on a vacation. And, If I tell this to my boyfriend, he might even kill that guy. I feel very lonely and insecure. Please tell me , what should I do to get this incident out of my mind. Has anyone experienced anything like this?
3 responses
• United States
23 Dec 06
I would not stress over this as if he spoke to you in a negative way then he was not a friend anyhow. I agree I would tell your boyfriend and have him talk with him. Not kill him but scare him enough that this guy will know to leave you alone. Remember friends do not act this way.
• India
23 Dec 06
Thanks for your reply. I think you right, I will talk to my boyfriend about it.
• India
23 Dec 06
i just think u shud tell these to ur bf and convince him just to threaten tht guy not to talk wid u this way again...else tht fren might get enouraged to abuse u agan if u keep quiet
• India
23 Dec 06
Maybe, you are right. I will tell tell this to my boyfriend. Thanks for your reply.
@ankagar (1034)
• India
23 Dec 06
can we be friends, i will be a very sincere friend of yours.