Friendship

@cubanito (597)
Italy
December 24, 2006 12:26pm CST
The People ask me of approve my friendship and then after they disappear. I will want to make a beautiful virtual friendship with all but nobody answer. Why?
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@Chapman15 (1501)
• United States
24 Dec 06
I'd call the friendships that I make online acquaintences. The main reason is because 99% of the time I won't meet them, and secondly they aren't really in my thoughts throughout my day to day routine! I consider someone a friend when I can go to them for advice or with a problem and they can give me a solid information based answer based on knowing my tendencies. So, maybe I will understand your beliefs and some things about what kind of person you are online, but I probably really won't consider you a true friend... I know I do check some peoples posts more often, because they have interesting discussions that are fun to comment on, but in the end I think this space is just for fun!
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• Australia
25 Dec 06
u got it figured im here to have fun and hopefully make people laugh ill never meet these people but the imagination works wonders so lets all just sit back and laugh about wat a hornbag jen is. u gotta feel me peace
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@cubanito (597)
• Italy
25 Dec 06
Ok, you have raison, also i have desire of to do discussions with true people and with people that they want interesting discussions for then to be virtual friends
@Chapman15 (1501)
• United States
5 Jan 07
I guess our friendship is fading, because I still know nothing about you! Cmon make it more than an online acquaintance!
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@vabh4u (610)
• India
24 Dec 06
for being a good frnd its necessary that we know each other....n for that we need to talk...n for that i need ur messenger id ..so wat u say now....
@cubanito (597)
• Italy
24 Dec 06
ok you have reason and i wish you Merry Christmas
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@vabh4u (610)
• India
25 Dec 06
merry christmas to u too dear
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@crework (217)
• Pakistan
25 Jun 07
ya i totaly agree with you. so where is your messenger id?
@fadzy1314 (174)
• Pakistan
24 Dec 06
I guess friendship is an inevitable relation which finds it way it self. I believe that nobody becomes frind just by accepting your offer of friendship. Friendship is something about Trust, Reliance, Co-operation etc etc. I think people who become friends after being Mr XYZ for some period are actually our friends instead of the ones who make us their friends or who are made our friends by us.
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@cubanito (597)
• Italy
24 Dec 06
i hope that virtual friendship is as the real friendship because It have need of to grow but if someone love only to see a beautiful image for to be friend then i will take away my avatar image
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• India
24 Dec 06
Hi, Some people do like that. If U want good friends to get attachment U must go on chatting with them continuously. U must mingle by heartily. If we chat continuously for some days We will get to know each other. Then we can become closer & closer. If U talk rarely nobody stays permanently. U must be in touch with them everyday.
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@cubanito (597)
• Italy
24 Dec 06
i don't like go chat, i like meet the people here, also because i haven't time of chat in english. i know little english. Sorry
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@okik35 (41)
• Philippines
1 Jan 07
what yo want is actually possible. but like love or respect, friendship is earned. you worked on it. it's going to be a bit difficult since you'e miles away but i believe, with constant communication, a friendship can be established between two people. don't worry if you're not so good with your english. we can always work around it..are you ready to be friends with me now? if you are, just send me a message or add me in friends list. i will do the same...
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@cubanito (597)
• Italy
1 Jan 07
I add you in my friend list and i'm happy to have you as friend
@okik35 (41)
• Philippines
5 Jan 07
thank you. and now we can start working on our friendship..it's really nice to know that i have a friend somewhere out there. let's keep in touch okay..you can send me a message if you want. i check it regularly. by the way, i from the philippines. how about you?
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@cubanito (597)
• Italy
5 Jan 07
I live in Rome Italy but i'm working in a lot city italian
• Canada
19 Feb 07
I do know how this feels considering you have done the same. I am shocked, not appalled! You're not the only one that has done this. Sign me up as a friends and then disappear, not even share their opinions to my topics of discussions. No positive nor negative response. It is very upsetting that this happens. Even when they do this, they give poor answers to my topics.. just to get credit, shame on them!! Whether I see your topic or not I do answer.., just not right away. I give it a day, then I come back give my comments. In some cases... someone else has taken the words from my fingertips. Bah humbug!! What did I do really except give my opinions. Sure they have been harsh but, they were honest! So I wonder if you'll answer or you friends will ever answer my topics of discussion, considering you are one of jazzafrazz's mylot friends......
• Canada
24 Feb 07
LOL, I don't mean anything personal by this last response. look^^^^ up!
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@cubanito (597)
• Italy
11 Jun 07
i appreciate your sincerity and i considering your comment for honest !! i believe that you have reason but al lot people ask because i approve their friendship but now i have around 300 friends here in this forum and i don't turn out to do discussion with all their
@su3ren (68)
• India
2 Aug 07
Yes, i agree with you. I've had the same problem. People ask for your friendship and after that they disappear. This is a virtual world so don't expect friends like they happen to be in the real world. You need mutual trust and understanding to be friends. Thats exactly what the virtual world lacks. You seem to be a beautiful person from inside as you are from outside. we can become friends and try to remain friends forever if we both have trust and understanding. I am not going to disappear.What do you say, honey?
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@cubanito (597)
• Italy
25 Aug 07
you have reason and i agree the people in the virtual world haven't interest to develop friendship in this forum. I hope that you not going to disapper. I wish have very much friends here and i thanks you for you disponibility and friendship. Thanks for have answered in my discussion
• United States
7 Jan 07
I appreciate you that u are helping this comminity to create friendly environment by the posts like this. We should pay attention the posts on friendship, sincerity and others who promote the healthy features of the society.
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@cubanito (597)
• Italy
11 Jan 07
I appreciate you because at this question you have very help me and with me promote you this community and virtual friendship
@banta78 (4330)
• India
5 Jan 07
hello friend, i respect your sentiments. And i on my part tries to respond as many friends discussions as possible provided i find them interesting and worth the effort. I also like to maintain virtual friendship like you as one learns a lot from healthy interaction of views on different situations, different cultures. I feel happy when i am able to help my friend by posting good responses to their discussions. And when some friends thank me for it, it makes my day.
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@cubanito (597)
• Italy
6 Jan 07
very Thanks for your virtual friendship and i'm happy that you feel happy when you help your friend by posting good responses. I hope that you not disappear by my list of friends. Good day to you
@aaron2416 (152)
• India
5 Jan 07
well....there must be a reason why they disappear. maybe they got caught up with some urgent work, the world is busy. anyway, u r nice. its a compliment.
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@cubanito (597)
• Italy
5 Jan 07
thanks for your compliment. You have reason but why they want that i approve them in my list friends? I dont understand if then they not response or post in my question
@phon4u (2217)
• Laos
1 Jan 07
Keep adding and send personal message. You won't be lonely. Because people don't know how to go back to the last response to check regularly. They always keep answering to new discusion. Any way, we can be a good and happy friendship here year for 2007.
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@cubanito (597)
• Italy
1 Jan 07
Ok, thanks! you are good friend
@annihilus (2184)
• Italy
1 Jan 07
Oh, it is not so hard... but you need a lot of lucky! Many are not always on mylot... have their life, their problem... you also need to accept this. If you need a daily net-friendship I think you don't must to search this on the net but in the real life... You are in my friend list but I don't answer everyday to your discussions and some I am not interested. But if I see an interesting post I answer! ok?
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@cubanito (597)
• Italy
1 Jan 07
Ok very well but you not leave me here alone!
1 Jan 07
i must say that you have a great planning before starting this thread of yours coz we guys would be eager to respond as soon as we finish reading your first post and you know that..hehehe well keep it up. now about your question, approve my request as i am always on internet so will not leave you until you decide yourself.. :)
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@cubanito (597)
• Italy
1 Jan 07
Ok, you are Kind with me
29 Dec 06
hey, come on any one eithere u or me should give answ, it does n't mean one paticular one only give messg.if u want make really friendship then give me reply.
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@cubanito (597)
• Italy
29 Dec 06
i little understand english and your english i don't understand it . you must better write your english because i can understand you, ok? Thanx
@Sm00tH (2037)
• Belgium
25 Dec 06
i have the same thing your english is very good for an italian woman, i have lots of italian friends (yes i speak italian) but their english is very bad =D
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@cubanito (597)
• Italy
25 Dec 06
thanks you are very kind
@rohsan (31)
• India
25 Dec 06
I think u r the first girl to say this. Add me as friend, I will not disappear, that is a VIRTUAL PROMISE.
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@cubanito (597)
• Italy
25 Dec 06
Ok, Merry Christmas
@hdyggs (685)
• United States
24 Dec 06
Could it be that your beauty can leave a person speach less!!
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@cubanito (597)
• Italy
25 Dec 06
thanks ! Merry Christmas
@su3ren (68)
• India
2 Aug 07
Yes, i agree with you. I've had the same problem. People ask for your friendship and after that they disappear. This is a virtual world so don't expect friends like they happen to be in the real world. You need mutual trust and understanding to be friends. Thats exactly what the virtual world lacks. But we can become friends and try to remain friends forever if we both have trust and understanding. What do you say, honey?
@ashar123 (2357)
• India
22 Jul 07
Life I think makes everyone busy or people here on MyLot are not taking friendship seriously. Its now two months now since I joined MyLot and in these two months I tried to develop friendship with many but no one replies more than 9 times. 9 times was from one lady with which I started a chain of replies which we used to write to each other on daily basis but she has also stopped. If you are intrested we can develop such chain, only one thing, you must leep the chain active and keep on replying. In this way you get to know each other alot better. Knowing each other good is the basic need of a friendship. Intrested ?
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@crework (217)
• Pakistan
25 Jun 07
Bcz most of the people here are for making money.so they dont have a much time to write long messages. and do good friendship that is the big drawback of this site ....:(