Do you go for looks or financial stability?

Interesting, I think I am going for financial stability first since it is something that needs to be built with concrete walls. Next I go for looks, though I don't completely ignore the looks part of this aspect, I do partially also go for looks. How about you?

I think if you are looking for lust then go for looks, if you want a long, successful relationship then it would be financial stability, if you can have both then that's a miracle! So I do agree with you there. Relationships don't happen for me, so I would look for fun.

I'd go for someone I love regardless of looks and/or financial stability. Looks and financial stability are just superficial. I can't imagine my self living my whole life just because of her looks or her financial stability alone. But if I had to choose between looks or financial stability, I'd rather go for looks. Why? Simply because I am financially stable (just kidding).

Ever since i never go for looks. If you want to settle down you must be financially ready and all other aspects. The looks will just be a bonus!

Well it's party looks for me but also the way wife is. she's alot like me and we share alot in common we have fun and i can be me around her. (which bought us closer together in the earlier days of dating) financial stability isn't important to me. i'll make make it and cover up for what we need, i don't need a wife with cash but one who will love me and be cool. ~Joey