who should choose their life ?parents or children?

both parents and children shd jointly decide

parents must take care of the child untill the child is able to judge the morals of the soceity and also guide their child to have a bright future... childer at younger cannot judge the morals they need the help from parents so when they get older they get matured and can take their own decison... so a parents role is untill the child gets to know his conscience and children will take up the decisions later on in thier life