How can a guy flirt?

@zubair439 (3183)
India
September 26, 2006 5:16pm CST
I have no idea how to flirt, be flirty, with girls. I just talk to them and take them to dates and stuff. But I don't know what it means to be a flirt.
11 responses
8 Oct 06
It’s hard to describe what being a flirt is, though I believe humour is a very big part of it, if not then a big part of achieving a level ground to flirt within. It’s all about feeling good and having the other person feel good in the end.
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@zubair439 (3183)
• India
9 Oct 06
Thank u.
@hppygrrrl (419)
• United States
6 Oct 06
You have to have game!! lol I think a lot of flirting comes from having positive self-confidence:) Well, if your taking girls on dates you must be flirting atleast a little, otherwise how'd you get them on the date right!
@zubair439 (3183)
• India
6 Oct 06
thanks frnd
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8 Oct 06
Confidence but not arrogance! And yeah, doesn't sound like you're doing to bad this far Zubair!
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@zubair439 (3183)
• India
9 Oct 06
ok
@kunalvijan (3411)
• India
22 Jan 07
with ur skills
• Philippines
24 Jan 07
I also show gestures that I like the girl by holding her hand or always being with her. It will show that I like her
@vyaasrad (565)
• India
22 Jan 07
flirt is once one talent and it cant be expresed or adviced ,it has one's own originallity
@vdhill (65)
• United States
24 Jan 07
A man flirts with a woman by the way he looks at her. It's that certain glance--those unspoken gestures, that make a woman feel desirable. Effective flirting can be accomplished from across a crowded room. In fact, it is an art that most men don't cultivate. Game, on the other hand, is exactly what it sounds like: deception, manipulations, and lies that are designed to win a woman's affection. Men are much more knowledgeable about having game (or, playing games) than they are about being honest with a female.
@getjimmy (2242)
• India
29 Oct 06
just by being nice...and smile at her if she smiles back ask her if she is doing anything for weekend...if she no ask her if she would like to...wait for answer if she says no than say me neither if she says yes ask her if she would like to do something with you
• India
23 Dec 06
well buddy if at this age you dont know the way to flirt then its useless to be a man, c'mon yaar there is nothing to learn in it its just self way to handle grlz
@pratew3y (1893)
• India
1 Jan 07
well i am not even such a flirt type of guy so even not my cup of tea
@ngchunyi (130)
• Canada
24 Dec 06
Same here, I have no idea how to flirt. Sometimes I might accidentally flirted with someone without me even knowing it. But seriously, how do people do it?
• India
23 Dec 06
arre...u take them on dates na...then its half the work done...flirtin means lettin them know that u have interest in them...but not in a very obvious manner...otherwise u could come off as needy....for more advice u can send me a message...