Why do we fall in LOVE

India
December 28, 2006 5:31am CST
Hi....there is some gal who is in love with me....but i dnt have any feelings for her......please help me out on this.....is Love abt looks and how do we fall in love just like tht......do i need to respond to her back......plzz help me....
3 responses
cessy1
@cessy1 (1748)
• Philippines
28 Dec 06
love is not about the looks..it is about how we feel for somebody..do not force yourself to love her coz you'll end up hurting her..
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xpriens
@xpriens (27)
• India
28 Dec 06
i am not forcing myself on her.....but she still waits for me to say yes....though i have told this to her, tht i dnt love her.....still she is waiting, and i feel really bad, as she is my very good fren.....i dnt wanna see her break like this.....but i cannot help, as i dnt feel anything for her....
sahiba77
@sahiba77 (178)
• India
28 Dec 06
If somebody has to think and decide and then fall in love then thats not love....and love is not about looks...love always happens.....and i think u should respond to her back and clear your side and tell her clearly that you dont love her....
xpriens
@xpriens (27)
• India
28 Dec 06
i have told her this.....but she loves me a lot....and she is also my very good frne, but am not able to decide whether to move further or not.....
atulperx
@atulperx (735)
• India
28 Dec 06
Juat go and ask Adam and eve , and in most of the case when we com to the age of 16 we get influenced by society .
xpriens
@xpriens (27)
• India
29 Dec 06
Tht was nice ---- so can u ask them for me....actually i have lost contact with them ;) Still didn't get this, we are influenced by society for fallin in LOVE.......or for not fallin in LOVE......is love being measued with our so called Spcietal Cultures.....