!!!Friend!!!

India
December 28, 2006 6:51am CST
what do you think,what is the best way off assessing faithfulness of a friend? (sometimes you find yourself in a very difficult condition and nobody comes to help you even your friends)
2 responses
@durzor (42)
• New Zealand
28 Dec 06
assessing faithfulness of a friend cannot be done however testing them can. But do you really want to? By testing them you are also telling them they can not be trusted, and when in real need there will be no one to help. You must also remember that friendship 'cuts both ways', you must be a good friend to have friends.
• India
29 Dec 06
Then what should we do to know that somebody,whom you call your friend, is really with you. I've seen most of the time your companion(the so called friend) stimulate you to do something adventurous,and when you find yourself caught in troubles he is lost.
@durzor (42)
• New Zealand
30 Dec 06
I think its all to do with trust...initially it is based on a warring trust which if maintained develops into the friendship you want, if you are let down by someone you can either move on or give them a second chance its up to you. Of course there will always be hiccups no matter how strong the friendship is. You may even think that building these frienships is a waste of time and sometimes it is, but you grow and learn, just remember all good things take time.
@perugu (5281)
• India
28 Dec 06
hi,its really not easy to identify faithfulness of a friend....but in our old friends circle,we can identify by personal assessment,but in the case of new ones,we have to wait upto some time ,for getting close and knowing his attitude.
• India
29 Dec 06
hmm...I think you are right becoz i found it very difficult to identify faithfulness of friends.