What advice do you have?

@1alyssa (758)
United States
September 27, 2006 11:22am CST
I am seven month pregant and the father of my baby and i broke up about a month ago. I had a doctors appt. yesterday that he took me to. I did not talk to him the whole way there because we had a fight the night before and i was still upset with him. Because of that he sat in the car the whole time i had my appt and would not come in to see if everything was alright with the pregancy. I shouldn't have to talk to him to get him to care what is going on. How do you think i should handle this?
1 response
@ossie16d (11825)
• Australia
7 Oct 06
I took both of you to create this new life and it is sad that you have now broken up. However a child needs both parents to be involved in their life so you should have some sort of pleasant communication going on. Perhaps he is feeling a bit excluded right now as being pregnant all your hormones are going haywire. If it happens again, tell him you are upset and do not want to talk right at that time but you do want him to come into the Doctors with you. Good luck to all of you and I hope that for the sake of your baby, both of you can have a civilised relationship.