DOES YOUR HUSBAND TELL YOU TO LOOSE WEIGHT?

@vstone (69)
United States
September 27, 2006 8:53pm CST
Are you going to listen to him or be happy with who you really are and do what you want?
13 responses
@DRoddy77 (1776)
• United States
29 Sep 06
I am overweight and my husband constantly tells me how beautiful I am. If I say anything negative about my self he gets very angry. He once told me that he would love me the same whether I weighed 100 lbs or 800 lbs!
• United States
28 Sep 06
No my husband doesnt tell me this. I tell myself this since having the baby he reminds me she is going to be six months old and it takes time. I get fustrated ... and he supports me and helps me feel better.
@ssh123 (31070)
• India
28 Sep 06
There are guys who want their wives to look smart, lovely. So they tell their wives to keep a watch on weight. There are some who genuinely concerned about overweight and they tell their wives to reduce the weight. Prevention is better than cure.
@bhchy1 (6047)
• United States
28 Sep 06
I always want to lose at least 10 pounds...but if openshis mouth he will be sufferring with me...he can lose a few himself..
@beatgirl (85)
• United States
28 Sep 06
Only if he wants to be the first to start.
@Si1234 (457)
• India
28 Sep 06
Yes. if he tells, you should loose the weight. That will make husband happy
• United States
28 Sep 06
My hubby feed me very good. He know that I need to gain weight and he is pretty good about what I like to eat and he think how I can gain some weight. I know I have to gain weight but I do feel very comfortable with my weight right now.
@DeenaD (2684)
• United States
28 Sep 06
No, In fact, my husband does the opposite. When I say that I think I'm too fat, I need to lose weight, he tells me I'm fine.
@tmakinc (135)
• United States
28 Sep 06
My husband has never told me to lose weight, but he has told me that I was getting chubby. Of course, I did ask him for his opinion and when I ask I want the truth, no matter how harsh it may sound. I don't think he would have told me if not asked. When we met ten years ago I was 110 lbs and very toned because I worked out constantly. Ten years, and two kids later, I weigh 125 and lost alot of my tone, because I work out less and my job requires me to sit most of the day. I don't want to lose weight, because now I have more of a figure, but I do want to get toned again. However, I want to do it for me not him. He doesn't complain, he tells me I still look beautiful, but I think it will make me feel better about myself.
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28 Sep 06
If you're happy with who you are you should listen to nobody, of course unless there's health implications, and then you need to listen to your own body.
@1alyssa (758)
• United States
28 Sep 06
my husband wouldn't be my husband if he said something to me like that i want someone who is happy with me the way i am and if i am not good enough for him then he doesn't need me and i will be gone
@BELMCstar (1341)
• Australia
28 Sep 06
No. He did not tell me to LOSE weight, he just pointed out the health issues of being overweight. I see this as a sign that he loves me because he cares for me.
@skittlez353 (1402)
• United States
28 Sep 06
It`s the total opposite with us! I need to gain weight! 95 lbs