after i marriaged
dislike washing plates and so onbut for several y
for example
i cant change themnow
i think i should change my husbands bad habbit
i think we should learn to
lack interest
Can we change our partners after marriage?
By tree701102
@tree701102 (734)
China
December 30, 2006 8:03pm CST
After i marriaged ,i think i should change my husband's bad habbit,for example, lack interest,dislike washing plates and so on.but for several years,i can't change them.Now,i think we should learn to accept different habbit,different point of view.and you?
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3 responses
@wm69love88 (3466)
• China
9 Feb 07
yes,i agree with you.It is very difficult to change our partners,because every individual has his or her own preference.Everybody has his own different likes and dislikes.We do not change their minds easily.
@lissaj (532)
• United States
31 Dec 06
No. You marry them knowing their bad habits and how they are, you should accept that after the marriage. If you are going to have a problem with it after you are married, deal with the issue before hand, or just don't get married. I think a lot of marriages end because people are always trying to change each other. If it wasn't bad enough that you married them anyway, learn to deal with it.
@beyonce03 (2331)
• Canada
31 Dec 06
We can't change others and we have to love them like they are. We have to tell ourself that if they like us like we are we can also.
I think thath most of the marriage don't work because ppl can't accept how other are.
