I have a situation!!

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I'm going to go through this fast! Tell me what you think, and tell your friends to check it out too!! My dad died a year ago at 46 on Dec. 27th. And he has 7 brother and sisters and his parents are still living. My dad had been sick for a couple months and 8 days before he died we found out it was cancer and at stage 4. Everyone kept telling my mom what to feed him, but he wouldn't eat. Both my sister and I didn't live at home anymore. His two sisters who live in other cities (one an hour away another 4 hrs away). I don't know what exactly their problem is, but it's along the line of that we don't care and killed our father! It's been a year now, and it's all been crazy! They don't talk to us. I say hello and motion for a hug but they just turn away. One problem is my grandmother, who listens to what other family members say, and then calls the girls and tells a similar story, and it just keeps going like that! One of my aunts daughter got married this past feb. and my mom and I, along with my sister were uninvtited to her wedding. My grandfather said, that just isn't right so he didn't go either! And now they're made because we made my grandfather not go, which is not true. We're not the type to go up to them and tell them something, what should we do? They are the type to come up to us, but they haven't confronted us at all!! They did comfront us one time, a couple days after the funeral and asked us why the stone was not up yet, and we said it took time. They came to our house at 10pm and we figured that they both drove down here just to tell us that! After that things just rolled all out of proportion! HELP!!