love marriage v/s arrange marriage

India
January 1, 2007 4:43am CST
how many of u believe tht love marriages are more successful than arrange marriages..??many parents do not agree wid their children's choice and get them married to some other place..is it right to do so??or the child shud go against their parents wishes if they do no agree..??share your views..
5 responses
@wmg2006 (5383)
• United States
2 Jan 07
I am surprised any place on earth still has arranged marriages. It is not done here in the USA as far as I know. An arranged marriage would never be a complete marriage. There must be LOVE for any marriage to work. I think this why arranged marriages were stopped long ago.
• India
3 Jan 07
gr88..den i must say u r lucky ppl coz in India it still exists..n watever i mentioned above is also v true..thts y wanted to knw the views of ppl..:)
• India
27 Jan 07
how can you thank a buddy who dont have any idea about the relations..... a father..... a mother..... these two personality have made your life this much comfortable that yu are enjoying this internet and having fun with it u never think how it comes and how they strugle to their life to make you do so even though they no complain from you ..... they jst want that you do more than he done in his life thats it. how these americans can have idea about all these they just paid from govt. to help their life fruitful and have no sence of all relationship we develop here chacha....bua......sister....brother......fufa....chachi...... can they have these relation ....ask...them... then allow to have their ideas to post here?
• India
27 Jan 07
well m sorry to say but no american said that dey do not value relations..every mother..be it an american or an indian loves her children and same is d other way around..and if you plan to marry someone you love,it doesnt mean that you are going against your parents..(if the guy or girl is right and if you are not running away and marrying)..their should be no problem..everyone is a human being n every person on this earth values relation..if they dont have different names like chacha bua tau n all..so wat..??they call them aunt or uncle..it doesnt mean that they dont value relations..and i am here to discuss with all the people from various countries and know their view and not just from indians..i am not here to make a community for indians and share my views just with them and go against people from different countries..
@ashar123 (2359)
• India
20 May 07
Everyone must have their freedom to live their lives depending upon their likings and dis-likings. It is very wrong to impose your choice on your children. So in my opinion love marriage is better than arranged marriage because the level of understanding between husband and wife is more in love marriage as compared to the arrange marriage.
• India
24 May 07
well yeah that is there but the only problem comes if one keeps too much expectations from the partner..only your expectations leads to frustrations..understanding level can b well developed with time provided both the mates give time and space to each other..what do ya say..??
• India
27 Jan 07
ya i tooo beleive in love marriage but this does not mean i do not have any respect for our parents..who stood all time behind you when ever u were in trouble.... when alll ur friends get lost coz of some reason then also there were these two creature to help you out..... i dont think doing marriage without being concerned with parents is good enough to take. they worked all time to atleast 22 or more worth ful years to get you all good suportive life...its only for you buddy. dont you ever thought of their sacrifice of life for only that the only thing in mind that only their child can enjoy life and make all that what he want to do...... fame and money that he make even more than he himnself has made.....?
• India
27 Jan 07
well i am sorry to say but i never ever said that i believe in going against my parents for anything..but yes if the guy or girl isnt right then parents should also agree..and i always thank my parents for whatever they have done for me and are doing for me..i dint say that i believe in running away with the guy i like if my parents do not allow..obviously parents wishes are being taken care of..and i always appreciate whatever my parents have done for me till now..i dint say it either that i believe in dis-regarding one's parents..
• India
8 Jan 07
I think love is a painful pleasure ,love for sometime and pain forever ......but it is good to accept that pain ,because every success needs a pain......if u get a good life partner by little pain then what is the fault in it ......go for love marriages ,but beware dont go against the wishes of ur loving parents ,manage them to understand ur feelings ,afterall they are the ones who really can understand your feelings on this planet earth .....rest depend on person to person .
@ayaanah (232)
• India
3 Jan 07
i strongly belive in luv mairrage e.i luving a girl then marrying her, in dis way at 1st u touch a girls soul then her body ,when souls r togather they never depart... to me luv is most pious thing which exist in dis world.