love triangle..??? plzz help me!!!
By bloomingirl
@bloomingirl (76)
France
January 1, 2007 1:41pm CST
hey i m in a tough situation ...plz help me out..!!!
well i really dont know what should i do for this ...
m so much understress..
well their are two really close griends of mine..
and all of us are studing in same campus...one of them proposed me in very early days of our meeting...and after few days i said no to him...and then we will became very gud friends..but he did'nt stop his feelings.. and kept telling me about that..but i really give no attention to that.. and i gave all of my attention to our friendship...know situation is totally changed..it come to know through my first friend that second friend of mine als likes me.. and want to propose me.. know from that day first friend of mine blaming me as a cheater or what... besides i never did any sort of romantic talk with him.. i m just blank know.. plzz help me out that what should i do for it.???shoul i leave both of thm??/ or should i accept the proposal of second person?? plzzz help me with your own opinion..plzz!!!
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4 responses
@kareng (55348)
• United States
1 Jan 07
I agree with this totally. Be true to yourself. Do you like the second guy? Have you dated? Don't rush into anything just because they propose. You are young and need to experience life before settling down.
@bloomingirl (76)
• France
4 Jan 07
no i have not dated ... cuz..he did'nt say ny thing to me directlyyy...!!
@thinkingoutloud (6127)
• Canada
1 Jan 07
Well, I won't tell you what to do about the second person because only you can decide how you feel about him :) But, as far as the first person... he clearly did not understand or accept that you didn't share his feelings and that you only wanted to be friends. He assumed that, because you were still good friends with him, your feelings would change in time. He can't accuse you of "cheating" if you are not in a romantic relationship but, of course, his feelings are hurt and he is angry that you are interested in someone else. I think you need to sit down with the first guy and explain that you really like him and consider him a good friend but that you don't, and never will, have deeper feelings for him. He will need to accept that or you're going to have a hard time staying friends.
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@bloomingirl (76)
• France
4 Jan 07
yup... itried alot... and i always said to him(first guy )that v are good friends... he unnerstands it for a short periood of time i think so.. and then he felt jeoulsy when i m talking any other person...and he become angry on me... and talk of stupidities....!!!
@denden (802)
• Philippines
24 Jan 07
i think its your decision. you must follow your heart not your brain for now. because i know this could be accepted by the other guy who courted you.so be yourself.
