What is the one thing you could not forgive your spouse for?

well for me it would be cheating especially if he cheated with one of my best friends, I do not believe in any man having the right to hit me, as for lying everybody tells lies at some stage so I guess that one is out.

I could not forgive my spouse for cheating. I caught him with another woman right after I had my second child. It hurt me so bad. We are still together but he knows I dont trust him after so many years. We never bring it up but he knows that if I ever caught him again, It would be over.

I think that if my husband were to ever cheat that is a thing i could never forgive or forget.. and i don't think something like that could get better because i believe that once a cheater always a cheater, there is no excuse what so ever for that.. Another one would be hitting.. that is wrong.. and very abusive no would should stand for that.

I think that now after all these years, there is not much I would not forgive.

i will not forgive my wife for her dishonest by loving another man

well lets see, my first husband cheated on me with 4 different woman and I spent 12 years being beat on and got smart and left him. then my 2 husband was just lazy and caught him in bed with a girl and to this day he still says that he didnt do anything so hes out to. will never forgive either of them nope never.

Having an affair with another man ..... that's why she is now my ex-wife ..... then told everyone it was my fault we divorced because I was always away from home driving trucks but she was happy to spend the money I earned for doing that . Took no responsibility herself ..... never admitted she had an affair but some friends knew and put the word around town that was what was happening ..... the boyfriend soon asked for a transfer in his job because he couldn't face up to everyone knowing he was to blame as well as her.

I would not forgive infidelity, no matter what the reason. I have been hurt before and I have asked my husband to please end things with me if he were ever to fall in love with another woman-- or if he were ever to fall out of love with me.