My daughter is smart!

United States
January 2, 2007 11:01pm CST
My daughter is 29 months and can say her ABC's, count to 15 and more. What can your toddler do? She has another cuz a week younger and he acts like a 1 year old and has only like a 20 word vocabulary, she has like 1,000!! Is this just me being a mom, or is she really smart? Should I push it?
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@umjuna (100)
• Netherlands
3 Jan 07
Just keep it healty. Do stimulate her, put do not PUSH. And make sure you let her know that she is a wonderfull child wether she is so called 'smart' or not. You do not want her thinking that she has to be and act smart in order to be appreciated. And pay attention to her social skills and development, a lot of the 'smart' people really lack in social skills. And find it hard to communicate or make friends.
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• United States
4 Jan 07
Yeah, that's one thing I want her to get! We've been going to more parties and playgroups so I can try to teach her to be polite and learn to take turns. She does pretty good.
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• United States
3 Jan 07
wow, i think she's smart!
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• United States
4 Jan 07
thanks!!
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@chalmette69 (3007)
• United States
4 Jan 07
That is wonderful, and very smart, maybe you can get her into a special school since she is so smart, I mean I don't think pushing her at such a young age is bad, but I wouldn't push to hard, after all she deserves to be a child and has plenty of time for learning.
• United States
17 Jan 07
That's a good idea, there's an academy near by but it starts until 4 years old. oh well. i do not push her at all! Thanks for the advice.
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@jfeets726 (775)
• United States
18 Jan 07
My daughter is pretty much the same. She can say her ABC's and also count to fifteen. Sometimes she can make it to twenty, but not all the time. She is going to be three really soon, lol actually tomorrow. She has known her ABCs for about five or six months now. She has been able to count to ten, for what seems like forever, but she just recently learned how to get to fifteen. My daughter also known all of her shapes. Haha she was in the car with her grandmother and she told her that the stop sign was an octogan. Haha I think that is what is is. To be honest, I don't even know all of my shapes that well. We got some crayola flash cards from the dollar store and they really helped her with her learning. To me, it is kind of funny that I came across your message, even though it seems to be a little bit older. Did you help your daughter and work with her, like with flash cards? As I said above, that is what I did. Also, the LeapFrog Fridge Magnet thing helped too. My daughter loved that. I also have people that tell me that my daughter is smart. I don't know if this is considered pushing or not, but I work with my daughter at least one hour out of every weekday, I am a stay at home mom. We spend the same week focusing on the same thing, so that she doesn't get overwhelmed. This week we are working on recognizing the second half of the alpahbet. I am hoping to have her reading soon. I do think that your daughter is smart. I am I not trying to take away from that either, but I think that so many more children could be like yours if some effort was put forth. I had one of my friends tell me that she couldn't believe that my daughter knew what her shapes where, because hers didn't. Mind you her daughter is like three and half years old. I gave her some links to some websites that have preschool worksheets, but I held my tounge. I really wasn't to be like, well yours can be smart too if you actually work with her. Even though that was what I was thinking.
• United States
20 Jan 07
I thought I replied to your post already. I guess not, or didnt' go through.... We sound alike. I just hope our daughters will appreciate what we did for them these early years, and that they grow up to be great women. GOOD LUCK!
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@wmaharper (2316)
• United States
5 Jan 07
She seems intelligent. Intelligence is generally measured by how quickly you can learn new things, she may just be regurgitating facts, but she does know quite a few words for her age. Make sure you don't push your wants/desires on her. Many children get turned off when their parents become estatic about thier accomplishments and try to "Teach" them with flash cards or other tools. Learning should be fun, even if she has great potential, she'll never get there with you doing the pushing, it has to be her who's interested. but by all means, don't let her thirst for knowledge go unquenched!
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• United States
19 Jan 07
thanks, i'll be careful
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@sproutz (260)
• Canada
19 Jan 07
That is awesome!
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• United States
24 Jan 07
thank you.
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@mansha (6298)
• India
4 Jan 07
I think thats great, My son also used to say ABC at the age of one and a half years. Only thing is do not push her bnut give her all the stimulating toys to play with. Use play and learn techiniques with her. Fisherprice has quite a wide range of such toys and never be overconfident of her. Just keep providing stuiff and let her master it I think she will do very well. Pushing her will make her loose confidence.
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• United States
5 Jan 07
Yes, i agree, thank you.
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@witmuch (184)
• United States
16 Jan 07
she is definately smart! she sounds like my daughter. my daughter knows how to count up to 20 in 4 languages and will be learning 3 more because her daddy knows 7 languages. her pawpaw is teaching her another (Chinese)lol it is so funny to hear her say i love you mommy in so many languages. anyways! continue to practice, practice, practice with her. don't stop! our children are smarter than we are by far and they can learn from our mistakes! but we can give them something that we took for granted. we can give them the right education! thanks for your post!
• United States
24 Jan 07
yup, wow, she is so lucky to have smart parents! We're not that smart, that's why we're so suprised about our galy.
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• United States
4 Jan 07
All kids are smart in there own way. I assume this is your first. I have a 4 yr old who can read and a 18 month old who is potty trained. Each kid is different. I have been homeschooling my 4 yr old because she is more than ready and it would be silly to put her in Preschool where they learn colors and numbers! I say if your girl is ready then go for it! Eventually she will need the extra time with another skill so go ahead and get started now! My 4 yr old was like yours, potty trained before 20 months, ABC and all that stuff so we just went for it! Good Luck! It is great to have kids that don't have health or developmental problems you should feel blessed because a lot of families have these problems!
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• United States
17 Jan 07
Yeah, you're right about that. Yes, this is my friest! wow! you're good. i want to homeschool my daughter too. my daughter knows colors and numbers. Thanks!
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@umjuna (100)
• Netherlands
3 Jan 07
plus I believe girls are usually faster when it comes to talking. At least so I have heard...
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• United States
4 Jan 07
Yeah, i've heard that too
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• United States
21 Jan 07
She is smart and sounds like my son. My son can say his a,b,c's and 1,2,3's plus he can wash his hair, brush his teeth and more. He is three years old. He acts like he's five. I know how proud you are of your daughter just like I am of my son.
• United States
27 Jan 07
It's nice to brag, isn't it?
• India
21 Jan 07
hey its amazing , she is really GOD GIFTED , definitely push her she can reach great heights.... and u wil b a proud mom ...!!!!!!
• United States
27 Jan 07
I know!
• United States
24 Jan 07
U should because she can be like in the 5th grad by age 3 lol but im serious
• United States
27 Jan 07
Wow, a bit extreme don't you think