If you know that divorce will destroy your family, why would you do that?

it really depends on the situation,i myself waited till my kids were in their teens before i got a divorce.i didnt want my kids to suffer so i set aside my happiness for them.an it worked out well for me

When a decision has come to a divorce then the family is not doing well any way. That is when you weigh all your options and consider which will be best for most of the family if not everyone is going to be happy about it.

I think there are some cases when life becomes impossible betweent he couple, I agree but when you ahve kids you need to make some sacrifices. You don't live for yourself, you live ofr your family. I have some problems with my husband but for the beauty of the eyes of child, divorce doesn't cross my mind. I see how my baby is so attached to hid dad and i don't want him to be away from him. So I think you should think alot before taking such a step.