My friend was fooled on her first Blind Date !

@humaaaa (1386)
Pakistan
January 3, 2007 6:27pm CST
My Friend who was talking with a stranger on phone who used to call her and they used to talk on for hours. Than my friend also used to call him sometimes when he didn't call for a while or so and she got habbitual of talking to this guy and couldn't bear her feelings without talking with him. They both talked for hours at night with each other and she shared everything truth about her self with the strange guy. My friend has little extra pounds but she looks good this is that she already told the guy and he agreed with her physical appearance. After a month or so they decided to meet and see each other so my friend told her to meet at Pizza Hut in our town where its easy for her to go. My friend was in Pizza Hut and the guy didn't come, she was getting worried and guys cell phone was also turned off. Suddenly the guy called her after around 1 hour of wait and asked her He is standing out side the Hut and she should come out and he will take her somewhere else for a ride or may be lunch. Girl didn't agree as she thought it would be a disrespect. The guy said his elder brother is there with his friends so he don't want him to watch him with the girl. Still my friend made him agree to come inside. Guy came in and my friend said he gave a weird look at her and came and sat beside her. They started talking and the guy ordered for pizzas. After finishing the lunch the guy told the waiter to bring a salad bowl for take away, and ascused my friend for a while so he should fill the bowl up and they may leave after that. The guy never returned after sometime the waiter came to my friend and told her that guy has left and she has to pay the bill for the pizza they ate and the salad guy took with him self:P Girl was atonished she didn't had much cash, she called the guy and he refused to talk to her saying he doesn' know this girl. Girl kept the mobile at the hut and bought the money from home paid the bill and got her mobile back. Since than she is confused she just hate boys, she never talk with any guy even she has started hating her brother and dad. She thinks every guy will turn out to be same.
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7 responses
• United States
5 Jan 07
Why the hell did your friend pay for the stuff that the GUY ordered? They can't legally make her pay for something that SHE didn't order!! That really pisses me off - why does she assume that she has to pay? I had friends I was with at a restaurant walk out on a bill, and they tried to get me to pay, and I flat out refused. I'm not paying for other people's sh*t that they didn't pay for. If she ate pizza, she should have paid for only what SHE ate, nothing more.
• Singapore
5 Jan 07
this is terrible! and i always ensure that before i take it a step further, i will make sure that we exchanged photo first before meeting up...and when both are ok with it, then proceed with meeting up. i know it's kinda shallow, but when you are playing with 'online' dating...this is one of the rules. tell your friend not to despair...there are still good men out there...i've met my bf from online and believe me, i have a lot of extra pound whereas he's skinny..but he loves me for who i am and he's such an angel...
@getnbuy (1312)
• United States
5 Jan 07
Your friend put herself in a dangerous situation. What if she had gone with him? He could have had a multitude of evils in mind. Girls should never meet someone they have met on the internet. It is too easy to be tricked and taken advantage of. She was lucky she wasn't raped or worse.
@budsr03 (2350)
• Canada
5 Jan 07
If your friend believes in karma this immature selfish jerk will get what he has coming to him. She put herself in a vunerable position but the blame is not hers. There are wonderful people she has still to meet. Take care.
@umerasif (532)
• Pakistan
5 Jan 07
Wow what a story. I must say that that guy sure was one big loser. He teased with you friend's emotions. The worst part was not paying the bill and just leaving your friend sitting there in Pizza Hut like that. That was really a mean thing to do. You said that you friend now hates all men, That is not fair. You should tell your friend that all eggs are not alike. And if unfortunately she happened to come accross one rotten egg it does not mean that she should stop eating eggs all together. However, she should be more careful in the future for sure.
• United States
5 Jan 07
This is very sad to of happend to your friend. You need to remind her that just because one man does something wrong, it does not mean that all men are bad. This is what life is all about, it is a learning tool. We learn from our mistakes, pick ourselves up and go on. We are a much stronger person now because we have learned another lesson in life. Tell your friend to live her life and be happy. One wrong does not make them all wrong.
• Pakistan
5 Jan 07
Lolzz.... i just wonder.... say if there are 500 girls in this world and 1000 boys... 500 boys are good and honest, 500 are flirt and dishonest. 500 bad boys cheated 500 girls in the world, and all 500 girls started hating boys. where wud those 500 good boys gooo..!!!! LOLZ