bad things about being single.how do you feel to be single?

India
January 3, 2007 11:51pm CST
Feeling down and lonely so many days and nights. If i am getting sick no one there to care and watchout for me. I can't share my joy and sad with any one. These are the few things i am uncomfordable with being single Some say its great to be single and so you have freedom to do what ever you need. and HOW DO YOU FEEL?
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8 responses
• Philippines
6 Jan 07
There are so many good and bad things about being single. First, the good side. You can always enjoy being yourself without the resposibility to your bf. You can always join your friends to wherever and whenever they go. Lastly you can enjoy the company of your family. Then, the bad side. You are being left out by those people with bf/ gf. But, it doesn't mean should feel lonely. You doesn't have somebody to share your happiness and sadness with. But, that's the only thing that's sad. But, me, I enjoy being single...
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@gunchu (154)
• India
7 Jan 07
i feel sorry for you , you should get married now . yes its the time and you need that badly , talk to your family on this .
• India
5 Jan 07
being single is a fun.... the freedom u get... no responsibilities.... no commitment live ur life as u like to..... and i would be more than happy we u wud like to share ur sorrows and joys with me......
@xphile777 (427)
• United States
7 Jan 07
I feel the same things that all single people from time to time (which can be summed up in one word as "depressed"). But I also feel the good things about being single (which can be summed up in one word as "freedom"). I try to always focus on the positives and know that the negatives will affect me from time to time and realize that, as the saying goes: This, too, shall pass.
@umjuna (100)
• Netherlands
4 Jan 07
I have these moments that I suddenly remember the way I felt when I was still single. I just really wnated someone to give my love to and to share things with, my life, my thoughts and my feelings. So I can definatley relate to what you are feeling right now. However try to convince yourself that you are never ever really alone, put your trust in God, He and only He knows what we feel inside, deep inside our harts. Plus you might have familymembers that care a lot about you.
@jsan0147 (186)
• Philippines
5 Jan 07
im braek up to bf now im single im feel NOTHING
@aarkhay (73)
• India
4 Jan 07
Why do you want to look at the bad side of being single. Look into the good side where you are independent and in a position to do what you want at your own liesure with no one to boss over you. You can eat, sleep, read, watch TV, listen to music, or do whatsoever without thinking that it might disturb others.
• India
4 Jan 07
In my point of view i a have been not into good relationships.so have many bad things that have happen when i was committed.it doesnt mean you can be always happy while in a relationship. but now i am single which in a way is good to have a think of yourself what went wrong and be around with friends more than being sad about previous relationship.its fun to be single.you cannot always remain single so keep trying and find the best so take time out now for a while.