What is an easy way to get over someone you love

United States
January 4, 2007 6:57am CST
Things are not working out real well for me .. i dont think my love life will be lasting much longer what are some helpful ways to help me get over the person i love.. and move on and really just forget?
4 responses
@MrsFrizzle (1963)
• United States
4 Jan 07
I do not think you will ever 100% get over it. I mean people come and go in our lives and with them they leave memories and we gain life experiance. Take this time to focus on you. Put yourself first. Buy yourself something nice, give your self a manicure, take a nice bubble bath. You may hurt for a while but what is done is done. You are a great person and there are like a million fish in the sea. I really don't think you like fish but there are also turtles, and octopusses in the sea too. You will find the right person for you. A person you do not have to work hard on changing, or encourage to do the right thing. Someone who is perfect the way they are Someone who can take care of you! Because you deserve it.
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• United States
10 Jan 07
thanks you are 100% correct but my heart is telling me thats not so .. but i will come through
• Philippines
9 Apr 09
For me from my experiences, what i did is i stopped all the communications. As much as possible, i don;t talked about him, i never associated with our friends who have contact with him or i will asked them to stopped mentioning about him. All the things that he gave, i burned it or i gave it back to him, all the things that will remind me of him. Then i start socializing again but not in the case that i will enter another relationship when i know I'm not ready.
• Philippines
5 Feb 07
keep yourself busy, busy, busy. also, surround yourself with people who care about you, like friends and family. i know it's tough, but you'll get over it sooner or later. it's not like you wake up one day and you're suddenly over that person entirely. it could take months or even years depending on what kind of relationship you had. just believe that everything happens for a reason and you'll be on your way. good luck! =)
@n30wing (4767)
• Philippines
12 Mar 09
It doesn't take just one night to mend your broken heart. Even moving on it's not that easy, and falling in love again takes time. Well go out and enjoy yourself, just love your self first that helps to forget. Do the things you haven't done it's a good remedy to forget.Have a nice day to you!