Childfree

I think its great you know what you want. Everyone is different and you shouldn't change your mind just trying to fit in. However I wouldn't do anything permanent though. You never know what could happen in your life to change your mind and there are so many other options now.

I am with you on that one. I am not a big children fan. I've already decided that I don't want kids. If I ever change my mind I'm going to adopt.

I'm not. That's we have free will, ya know? We all can chose our path in life. Despite what some people have said in this discussion, I believe that there is nothing wrong with being childfree. I didn't have my son until I was 35, (now I'm 36) if I would have had him any earlier, he would not have gotten my 100% commitment. Kudos to you for realizing what you want/do not want and sticking with it.

Some people do not want children for a variety of reasons and some cannot have them. I have the one child and thank God every day for him but if you strongly believe that you do not want children, then that is your decision and you should be respected for it. I wish you good luck if you do decide to adopt a child at some time. :)

Good for you. If that's what you want in life you go for it. I have one child. I love him very much. But I do not want any more. I am going to make sure that I have no more. If you want none then don't have any. :)

I have 3 kids so I'm not childfree but I *don't* think it's strange if someone doesn't want to have children. To each their own and sometimes I wonder what I'd be doing if I didn't have kids but I am glad I have them. In a few years, I'd like to consider the possiblity of adopting as well.

Some people say that not having children is selfish. I don't think so. There is nothing sadder than an unwanted child. If you don't want any, I don't think you should have any. That, to me, is logical, not selfish.

I feel so sad for you, I was never able to have my own child, I had to adopt and I always wanted my own child, I can't believe you would not want to have a child, they are such a gift, I wouldn't know what to do with out my daughter, she is so special to me, I am the lucky ont to have her.I feel sorry for you, with that attitude, it is probley better you don't adopt.

You don't know what you're missing, children are great, I can't imagine my life without them.

I am currently without children at this point in time I would never considering having a child right now as the environment is not right for a child to be in. Though I don’t think I’d like to always be without children, although it’s a personal choice at the end of the day.

Wel l, this is your choice I didn't want kids either. I'm 30 and have 2 God had different ideas than I did. Working in healthcare and with elderly It makes me happy to have kids so when I'm old they will be around to see my needs are met nad not just stick me in a nursing home and forget me. Even peoples own kids do this but still there is a better chance they won't.

that is so sad i have three kids and one on the way and i don't know what i would do if i didn't have them in my life what is it that makes you feel that way? just wondering

It's so lovely that you would consider adoption.. even if you just did foster care that would be a great thing.. It makes me happy to know that you work and care for children who are having difficulties in life.. the world needs more people like you.. but also needs more people willing to adopt these poor kids

I am childfree,past childbearing years, and I am happy. I did lose one at 19yrs of age to early miscarriage and went on to major medical problems for years, which led to total hysterectomy at 24. I only miss the one I lost, but not having another chance was alright with me. I adjusted, and I don't think a child should be brought into the world unless it is wanted. So to those childfree, kudos to your freedom of choice.

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childfree

I respect your decision. I put off having children for a long time, and sometimes wonder if I made the decision to go ahead, because there were 3 other pregnant women giving off pheremones in my office. I ended up being very glad that I'd had my kids, but it's not for everyone.

I respect your decision. I put off having children for a long time, and sometimes wonder if I made the decision to go ahead, because there were 3 other pregnant women giving off pheremones in my office. I ended up being very glad that I'd had my kids, but it's not for everyone.

I considered myself to be childfree up to 30yrs of age, but then there was a moment in my life when i realised that I have to open up for others. I do love children and being a father has helped me to develop as a more mature person

I am smoke free ... and no one has the right to tell me my choice is wrong...so why would anyone tell you your choice to be childfree is wrong? Having said that , I do know that people judge others who choose to be childfree. I wish it didn't happen. I completely hear where you are coming from - you see so many disadvantaged children, how could you want to bring in a new child to the world? I am not childfree, but I have decided if I have another, it will be through adoption. There are just too many kids out there who need to be loved - and I have the love to give.