have you ever been cheated on?

January 4, 2007 4:35pm CST
hello. i am lucky to say i have never been cheated on, well i dont think i have anyway. i dont understand why anyone would cheat, if you dont love the person or fancy the person anymore why dont you just tell them. my cousin once walked in on his girlfriend with his best friend, it broke his heart especially when he was best friends with the person for about eight years, and he loved and been with this girl for two years. that's a long relationship for my cousin, he was always a ladies man, he never cheated on his girlfriend, but they never lasted long, and it did'nt take long for him to get another girlfriend. he tried to make the relationship work, it was the first girl he ever really loved, he never admitted that, but it was obvious really. the relationship never worked, to many arguments about the same thing all the time, and in the end she dumped him. few months later, she was with his friend, no not the one he caught her with, but another one of his friends. he still not in what you can call a stable relationship, i think he is scared in falling in love again, and being hurt all over again. my question is have you ever been cheated on? and why do you think that person cheated on you? because me personally cant understand why anyone would cheat on someone.
4 responses
• United States
4 Jan 07
Only one person cheated on me before ,and now they are begging my feet to go back with them,because all of the sudden they found out that they love me,but a person like that guy doesnt deserve anthor chance,He said he cheated because I didnt act that I really care about him,and I didnt give him enough attnsion,''like he deserves any''.
@sunita64 (6469)
• India
4 Jan 07
Yes I have been cheated, a person was constantly telling me that he loves me a lot and on the other hand was getting married and never opposed his family.That was a real bad experience.
@msmamaof2 (367)
• United States
4 Jan 07
Honestly I think the last time I was cheated on was in like the 10th grade.... I've been in the same relationship since I was 16 though so maybe I'm not the best person to be answering this question. Darcy
@puma_nz (999)
• New Zealand
4 Jan 07
Yep I have.. many times! *sighs* The 1st guy told me it was because he still had feelings for his EX.. That was cool.. I dumped his a$$. The 2nd guy told me cos he was drunk and didnt know what he was doing.. Bla bla bla.. I really dumped his a$$.. I have no idea where these fools are today but I heard that ONE of them had his winky removed for some MUNDANE reason???