Don't you just LOVE being alone sometimes?

@umjuna (100)
Netherlands
January 4, 2007 4:51pm CST
Human nature is that people live in a herd. They do things together, watch out for each other and the strongest lead the weaker. So you basically need each other. And we hate being lonely. At least so do I, I love being around others and when it's 'nice and busy'. But sometimes I just really really love being alone. Spending quality time on me and myself. Nobody nagging or bugging. Just peace and doing what you want basically without any interuption from others. Don't you agree?
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@azriel (2108)
• Philippines
5 Jan 07
i love being alone. it gives me time to reflect on certain things without interuption. i dont mind eating alone in public and i certainly dont like having company when i'm book hunting. i can spend hours and hours when searching for books and i dont want to be interupted by whoever i am with.
• United States
5 Jan 07
i love to be alone most of the time honestly not sometimes i hate crowdness noises arguments and meaningless discussions ,bad people i classify myself as isolted not social and i like what im
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@Shaun72 (15968)
• Palatka, Florida
5 Jan 07
I agree I enjoy being alone myself so I can relax.
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• United States
5 Jan 07
I totally agree - I need my alone time just as much as I need my together time!!!
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• India
5 Jan 07
yes i also agree that we tend to live alone sometimes. its the time when we are all alone , ourselves and we love that moment where there is no one to talk rude or do any harm , no work , no tension . its just we ourselves and the nature .
6 Jan 07
for me being alone is ok as long as its my choice. if i am alone because i have nobody to be with i cant settle and must go out and find company, but when i take a day off in the week and my wife goes to work it is heaven to dress (or not dress as you please and do everything just your way instead of having to consider the effects of your actions on someone else
@zeus1a (1048)
• Netherlands
4 Jan 07
I totally agree with you.May times i found myself just to want to be a bit alone, spend some time with myself as you call.It is not that i dont want to be social or i dont like people but you need to relax, to do even stupid things but be alone.So indeed i do agree with you.
• Philippines
5 Jan 07
i also agrees,specially when im sad or have a big problem i always go to p;aces were im only being there,carrying my i pod so i can listen to songs that will paced my mind in good condition again.
@Vulcanik (944)
• Netherlands
18 Mar 07
I totally agree, i have that feeling many times, and my girlfriend feels the same so it is just perfect!
• Canada
8 Jan 07
I enjoy my space and doing my own things without being watched or told what I`m doin wrong , if I`m alone noone can do that. I also love being around family and loved ones, but we all need to be ourselves once in a while. So yes I totally agree with you.
• United States
7 Jan 07
I love being alone at times. It gives me time a relax, read, and catch up on some much needed sleep. I love to lay in my bed and daydream so being alone allows me to do that as well.
@runsgame (2032)
• India
6 Jan 07
ya i agree totally . me too feel the same thing. instead of getting nagging and bugging ,it is better to be alone and enjoy the peace and of course u can get several right feed back also when u are alone. i agree to your point
• India
5 Jan 07
Yeah i love solitude.....its so peaceful sometimes to stay away from crowded places and be with myself...keep the noise, fights, quarrels away..i love my company....so i love being alone sometimes but not always..........
@cripfemme (7714)
• United States
5 Jan 07
I love my "me time" very much. I don't get very much as someone is usually here working for me as a personal care assistant because I'm physically disabled. Now that I have a cell phone I can be more independent because I can just call someone when I need help. It's very liberating! I love walking through the mall, working at my computer, and dancing in front of TV by myself. I truly do!
@kritipen (4083)
• United States
5 Jan 07
I love being alone for some part of the day. I just want some quality time all for myself. Also one can go back on the days activities and pause and rethink. It is a very refreshing time for me. Afterall everyone needs time to assimilate their experiences.
@donglory (677)
• Ghana
5 Jan 07
yes it make me make decision on my own
@deeeky (3667)
• Edinburgh, Scotland
5 Jan 07
Yes being alone sometimes lets me think to myself with no interuptions to put me off my train of thought. When someone is with me I tend to listen to them and try and discuss with them what they want to talk about, and by doing so I keep a friend happy knowing that when I need to talk to them they will listen to me.
• India
5 Jan 07
alone.......ofcourse there r times u feel u r best when u are alone not because u dont like being with people but because u need time for urswlf to reflect back on ur life,to introspect and retrospect and put things back on track and plus being alone also helps u too get ur acts together and get going.........
@copeland (72)
• United States
5 Jan 07
I love being alone to a certain extent. Theres the peace aspect of it, which is really nice a lot of the time, but after extended periods of time, alone becomes loneliness. Loneliness leads to depression and depression to bad times.
• India
5 Jan 07
yes i do agree with u ..................
@coolcatzz (1587)
• Canada
5 Jan 07
I do love having alone time. I wouldn't want to be alone all the time but I do enjoy it sometimes. Funny both my kids are the same way. When my son was little (he was an only child till he was 8) he would get sick of his friends being over and would look forward to them leaving so he could have some alone time. Now he is 18 and his sister who is 9 is the exact same way.
@sksingh (1412)
• Germany
5 Jan 07
ya i agree ,it is like taht only