Solutions that brings Problems...

India
January 6, 2007 3:36am CST
i have most of the times wondered y many people dislike me so much ... wel i wouldnt call is disliking but they dont approve of me. i use to search for an answer to that n guess wat i have reached 1 plausable reason its usually because of wat i would term as crude truth... many dont wanna hear it cause its better left unsaid according to them but even they know its better that its out for thier own good... this cause is jus not accepted by them...n me on the other hand i jus blutter out the truth flat on the face exactly in front of the exact person that should know it for the person for whom it is said is also present there.... to add to my discomfort that follows my answers n blutterin's are my eyes, i dunno y but almost every1 i know has told me atleast 1ce that my eyes are seriously very piercing n its not liked by most of them atleast not always... when the mixture of this antique look of mine n too good answers happens i experience wat 1 would call the most uncomfortable zone on this blessed earth.....i look at things usually in the most plainest of the ways but i cant help it if i grasp details that maybe i should not. i cant keep quite when i see something that can be corrected by me is not done n every1 else turns a blind eye towards the truth.... i have this habbit to stand for wat i belive in for if i dont do that then i cant fortify my own thoughts n statements n for that i am ready to usually risk everything.this whole time my all thse 20years of age i guess for the last atleast 12 years i have never let go of anything that i believe can be changed n i have always voiced for it in 1 way or the other... Most people dont like me cause of this habbit of mine n they never utter a word bout it either but their actions explain it clearly wat they r thinking even a lame person can make out when u r not wanted at some place or when they want to avoid ur company.... i have seen many people act in that way but well u jus cant avoid it after too many times .this is some literal experience i have had through many frens n even family. frens i have dealt with but family is 1 place where u have to make decisions very carefuly.. its a tough situation i get in to n i dont see a solution but i know it i guess even i jus need to realize it ... today i kinda let it flow, its gotten things f****d up for me but well as i said i stand for wat i believe in... i again did that today... These solutions that are the only way i have to deal with certain problems mit help resolve the problems for those i love n care for but creates problems for me instead... i dunno wat to do....
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@ruperto (1552)
• Philippines
13 Apr 09
interesting. I am reminded of "contradiction analysis" in problem solving. It seems at the crossroads, we must be prepared to give up certain things for the sake of more important things. This seems to be the sobering experience of almost all people. Perhaps the process it to rate my "contradicting" needs on a scale of 1 to 10. e.g. "1" being most important. From the list we'll be able to decide what to give up. It is best to try a scenario and try to imagine how it feels like... Cheers