how will you react if you come to know that your best friend is a gay or lesbian

India
January 6, 2007 9:15am CST
this is one of the developing issues of current world and is increasing day by day so answer me you come to know that you are best friend is a very active gay/lesbian how you will react to that? will you move with them as you did before knowing this?
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@Darkwing (21583)
6 Jan 07
It wouldn't affect my friendship with them if they were my best friend. I value people for who they are inside, and if they're caring, sharing, honest and reliable, then the fact that they were gay wouldn't bother me. If I heard it from an outsider, I would ask my friend face to face, if it were true. But, I would stand by her.
@Darkwing (21583)
7 Jan 07
No, if she were already my best friend and I knew that I could trust her, things wouldn't change between us just because I found out she was gay.
6 Jan 07
I think it's kind of one of those things, you couldn't say until it actually happened to you -- having said that, I don't think I'd care too much -- I mean, I respect my best friend, and she respects me -- if she was a lesbian, it wouldn't change anything, right? I don't really see the big deal about stuff like this...
@msqtech (15074)
• United States
7 Jan 07
If my best friend I believe I already know it so it would change nothing
@Pigglies (9329)
• United States
11 Jan 07
I'd be happy that they told me. And then I'd show them around as much as I could and listen to anything they wanted to talk about.
@Rachcaa (163)
6 Jan 07
I think if this person is truely your best friend you will already know that he/she is gay without them having to tell you. Therefore when they tell you it probably won't be a ture surpise. None the less it really should change nothing about your relationship afterall they will still be the same person as before you knew.
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@noachide (162)
• India
7 Jan 07
react?? i would react, " Oh, friend, where have you come? what are you doing? This is not really for you. come on,you got to stop this, for your own good. This will take you only backwards..which you are presently is giving you pleasure. Its not pleasure..but like poison. It will slowly eat you up. look at what has happened to others who have gone into this..." is that good?
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• India
7 Jan 07
but your friendis extremely into this
@noachide (162)
• India
7 Jan 07
then I will tell him, the same, may be, 10 or 20 times, in 20 different ways. then hope he might understand..otherwise, unfortunate.