The Friend of Mine
By Honeybuttz
@Honeybuttz (256)
Philippines
January 6, 2007 10:28am CST
I have a boy friend, notice that the word boyfriend has a space in the middle? because we are just good friends.But the thing is I'm attracted to him and I learned from a common friend that he is also attracted to me. We became good friends and we communicate constantly through our mobile phone by sending text messages and calls.Both of us are tied down to someone else does this mean we cheated our partners though we are only friends? Now we lost touch he does not communicate with me anymore and I don't know why. I'm quite upset because he is not only hot looking but he is also a nice guy.
6 responses
@Honeybuttz (256)
• Philippines
13 Jan 07
Wow! I'm shaken by your response.What I had with my friend is something memorable and now it's for me to move on and accept the fact, He is no longer a part of my life right now.New things has come my way and I'm excited about it.
@icoolmaste (100)
• India
13 Jan 07
if you really love him and if he too loves you then you both should start a happy life.
@Honeybuttz (256)
• Philippines
10 Jun 10
I do love him, and he does love me. We care for each other. Both of us are very happy with each of our own spouses. :-)
My apologies if I gave the impression, of being romantically involved with him. We are not romantically involved but I admit there was a mutual attraction between us,but we cannot go beyond our friendship coz both of us are tied down with somebody else.
@chiyosan (30184)
• Philippines
13 Jan 07
if he has gotten to love you already, then maybe he should choose whether to continue this with you or just keep the distance, you are going to be hurt in the end, and so does he.
@Honeybuttz (256)
• Philippines
13 Jan 07
I like your comment because it could be a good advice. But though there was an attraction between us we kept our relationship friendly because both of us are contented with our own partners.
I got upset because I miss our friendship.
@jenbatres (799)
• United States
7 Jan 07
You said you are both with someone else, maybe he is more commited to his partner than you are to yours. pick up the phone and call him, worst you can hear is "i'm not interested". Best of Luck
@Honeybuttz (256)
• Philippines
13 Jan 07
Hi,
Just like to say,what we had is a special friendly relationship without the danger of ruining our present relationship with our partners.
He shouldn't have to say he's not interested because there is no expectation to become more than friends.
@himanshumh (30)
• India
13 Jan 07
just because he has got good looks is no reason to get into a love relationship.
if he'd loved you than he wont have stopped talking to to u.
i think this is just attraction because than you both are engaged to someone else.
this is not cheating to ur friendship
@Honeybuttz (256)
• Philippines
10 Jun 10
thank you for your response,
That gave me a peace of my mind. That is the exact response I was waiting for.:-)
