Is Hard To Be Honest
January 6, 2007 3:01pm CST
Let's say one of your best frineds has gotten really annoying and you want to talk to him about it. How could you do it without putting your friendship at stake? How honest should you be with them?
7 Jan 07
On your question, yeah, sometimes it's hard but that shouldn't stop us from being honest. maybe being tactless or inconsiderate can ruin a friendship. Also it depends on what level is the friendship. But always say the truth in a nice way whether a friend or not.
6 Jan 07
Something like this just happened to me recently and my friendship is over. But I don't regret telling him what I thought about his actions. I won't go into detail about it. It's very sad that he didn't see that my honesty was a way of showing him that I care about him. I'm not going to the change the way I am by being an honest person. I have lost a few friends because I was too honest. It's hard to deal with sometimes, but I believe that one day they will realize what I was trying to say and will feel like an idiot. And if they call me and say sorry, I'll probably accept it. Sometimes it's hard for people to face the fact that they are wrong about something. I personally admire people that are honest with me. I want my friends to tell me something good or bad about me. I wouldn't get upset. That's just how I am.