Do you think Guys are over Protective about their sisters?

@fizza10 (1718)
Pakistan
September 30, 2006 6:18pm CST
Is it good or it shouldn't be practiced anymore?what do you think?should girls be allowed to do everything they want openly?
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@zahir_dk (1693)
• India
11 Oct 06
Yes i myself i am a brother and i think that brothers should always be protective about their sisters...
@fizza10 (1718)
• Pakistan
11 Oct 06
Thanks for the response buddy.....:)
@zahir_dk (1693)
• India
12 Oct 06
U r welcome... what are ur thoughts for the same
@fizza10 (1718)
• Pakistan
12 Oct 06
well.....meray hisab say dosti zada honi chahyeh...kam az kam mea bhai to buhat frank hai....magar sahi bura batata hai than says agay tumhari marzi circumstances khud dikhna.....simple
@srhelmer (6947)
• Beaver Dam, Wisconsin
11 Oct 06
I think it's not just guys being protective of their sisters. I know a lot of guys will do the same for their brothers. It's a sibling thing.
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@fizza10 (1718)
• Pakistan
11 Oct 06
yeah...you've raised a good point here...well said...Thanks for the response:)
12 Oct 06
I agree with that.
• United States
11 Oct 06
I think it is important for a guy to be over protective of his sister. It shows he cares and wants nothing to happen. An no girls should not be allowed to do everything openly.
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@fizza10 (1718)
• Pakistan
11 Oct 06
good point deary.....thanks for responding:)
@graaji (69)
• India
11 Oct 06
Very good reply..... I agree to your words....
• India
18 Oct 06
S they are protective. They should be but they should not restrict for everything, sisters should be set free but sisters should not misuse their freedom.
@fizza10 (1718)
• Pakistan
18 Oct 06
yes that's very right
@sunrisekn (1467)
• United States
13 Oct 06
My brother was. He is 2 years older than me and he was always trying to protect me. He used to tell his friends that they could not date me, if they called our house looking for me, he would cuss at them. Of course at the time I was so aggrivated with him because his friend were older and CUTE!!! Now, I think is sweet that he wanted to take care of his little sister. I think all brothers should protect their sisters.
@fizza10 (1718)
• Pakistan
13 Oct 06
yes.....now see you've realised that his little aggressiveness for you has shown you the result.....i guess now u'd feel even more closer to him emotionally and a sense of security would also be in your relationship .......Thanks for your response buddy:)
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@Sm00tH (2040)
• Belgium
13 Oct 06
some brothers are, but that's because they know what men are capable of and they want to warn their sisters and protect them from all players around... It's good that brothers look after their sisters, that's what i think at least
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@fizza10 (1718)
• Pakistan
13 Oct 06
yeah.....i agree with your thinking here....that really is the case these dayz.....ppl just want something to twist and turn their way like dolls.....
@fonofun (888)
• India
13 Oct 06
shoud be protective but not over so it can harm relationship
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@fizza10 (1718)
• Pakistan
13 Oct 06
yeah.....i agree in keeping a balance.......Thanks for the response:)
• India
11 Oct 06
wel some of us are, and need to chng accordin to times... i try to give my sister the space she needs, dat way, we have a stable and good relation ship.. and she is also my best friend.... so it would definitely help to be a bit more liberal
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@fizza10 (1718)
• Pakistan
11 Oct 06
yeah you're quite right....i guess there should be a little bit freedom of expression or else a distance will automatically get created in bw both.....Thanks for the response:)
@sunsham68 (1378)
• India
11 Oct 06
I think sisters wtih protective brothers turn out better than those that are too easy. Over protective brothers can do more damage than good. They should under no circumstances be allowed to do that. Having said that, protective would be someone who knows who his sister is seeing and what she is upto, and has a say and an influence in her life. Over protective is when he interferes in her decisions and imposes his will without consideration to the sister's choices, even when she has maintained decent limits and has chosen wisely not only by her standards in general.
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@fizza10 (1718)
• Pakistan
11 Oct 06
yes well put....Thanks:)
• Philippines
11 Oct 06
Brothers should always look after their sisters, that's why they're called brothers.
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@fizza10 (1718)
• Pakistan
11 Oct 06
Lolz.....that's something very true.....being a brother is a very tough job....
@graaji (69)
• India
11 Oct 06
I am protective but not over-protective..... Every sisters like to enjoy their freedom & we should not be against to that....... anyway it should be in limit.
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@fizza10 (1718)
• Pakistan
11 Oct 06
yeah that's right....everything looks good in limits....Thanks for the response...:)
• India
13 Oct 06
ya its fine to leave gals upto their wish but how can a brother forget his responsibilty on her .. i don't think this sense is completely wrong .. as a brother he should play his part but must make her feel that he is trying to limit her freedom .. care ur sister such that she doesnt even feel she is restricted....
@fizza10 (1718)
• Pakistan
13 Oct 06
very well said......i really admire this response of yours...
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• India
13 Oct 06
there was a mistake... as a brother he should play his part but mustn't make her feel that he is trying to limit her freedom..
@fizza10 (1718)
• Pakistan
13 Oct 06
Lolz.......it's ok buddy.....nobody in this world is perfect not even me.....
@sambosch (845)
• India
17 Oct 06
I dont have a sister so dont know really but i believe a person should have freedom to do anyting of her/his choice and if she wants my help she can always consult me.
@fizza10 (1718)
• Pakistan
17 Oct 06
you could have proved to be a good bro....:)
@sambosch (845)
• India
18 Oct 06
Thanks! You could have also proved to be a good sis coz you r !! MADE IN HEAVEN!!
@fizza10 (1718)
• Pakistan
18 Oct 06
lolz..... thanks alot....that was very sweet of u buddy:)
@babray06 (1787)
• India
17 Oct 06
A brother must understand just like parents where the line is? Where the interference is required. The problem comes when suppose family persons do not like some decisions of the daughter/sister.
@fizza10 (1718)
• Pakistan
17 Oct 06
i'm totally against of embosing dicesions of girls....there should be room enough for discussion atleast.......
@babray06 (1787)
• India
17 Oct 06
Well fizza we humans think differently at different age. In youth one doesnot like if any restrictions are imposed but at the same time when the same youth becomes parent starts imposing something on the kids/child. I am also against imposing anything on anyone. Of course there must be ways to discuss the matter and reach a solution.
@fizza10 (1718)
• Pakistan
17 Oct 06
yeah i agree..........
@dellion (6706)
• Malaysia
13 Oct 06
i think we do need to respect girl's right and of course they do allowed to have their own thinking.
@fizza10 (1718)
• Pakistan
13 Oct 06
yes.....but don't you think they do need protection from the loose wolves out there.......
@dellion (6706)
• Malaysia
13 Oct 06
Ya, thats been true that as guy we should protect those girls which for sure not limited to our own sister:) At the same times the self defence by themselves should actively encourage as well as to minimise the risks they were facing.
@fizza10 (1718)
• Pakistan
13 Oct 06
yeah..........you've raised a very valid point...i agree with you here.....nothing should be limited to only we us ourselves,,,,,
@bhchy1 (6051)
• United States
11 Oct 06
Some are..some are not...
@fizza10 (1718)
• Pakistan
11 Oct 06
ohh so you mean 50-50 Lolz.....
• India
11 Oct 06
no
• India
16 Oct 06
no
@skittlez353 (1404)
• United States
10 Oct 06
not all guys are. i think its better to have a brother thats over-protective than lets his sister do anything she wants. i dont have a full brother so i dont know.
@fizza10 (1718)
• Pakistan
11 Oct 06
hey i guess today you're upto make all my sleeping discussions alive.....Lolz Thanks again sweety....yeah you're right brothers are a gr8 support at times...specially in today's world their over protectiveness works alot
• United States
11 Oct 06
haha ur funny ;) no problem. i went into the "brain busters" for about an hour, thats all!
@fizza10 (1718)
• Pakistan
11 Oct 06
Lolz....ok my discussions are being busted LOLz....so sweet of you
@gulshah (861)
• China
15 Oct 06
one thing i would like to quote here is an example that why girls r protected more than guys by their parents and some time brothers is that diamonds r always kept in high security coz if it gets a single scratch its price is lowered and no one like to watch towards it but on the other hand guys r like pebbles who dont hav any such type of value as girls do
@fizza10 (1718)
• Pakistan
15 Oct 06
i must say u've put it very beautifully down.......
@gulshah (861)
• China
16 Oct 06
thanks dear but i wrote what is just the reality is
@franhrnt (185)
• United States
11 Oct 06
I have two very independent children who argue with each other,pick and sometimes even fight and let me tell you she can give him a run for his money but you let someone say or do something out of the way to my daughter and my son will put them in their place whether that be verbally or physically.He once said that he can do it but he won't stand by and let anyone mistreat his sister.
@fizza10 (1718)
• Pakistan
11 Oct 06
Lolz...that's pretty good....i guess it's your brought that's being reflected in their love...good to hear ...Thanks for responding:)
@fizza10 (1718)
• Pakistan
11 Oct 06
Lolz...that's pretty good....i guess it's your brought up that's being reflected in their love...good to hear ...Thanks for responding:)
• India
18 Oct 06
hmm i am protective brother!!!!!
@fizza10 (1718)
• Pakistan
18 Oct 06
thats pretty nice to know.....