can your heart...

@vanities (11395)
Davao, Philippines
January 7, 2007 1:06am CST
.. be trusted to recognize real love?? what about infatuation?? what does it mean??
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7 responses
• India
8 Jan 07
See ofcourse eyes & heart both r 1 of the trusted parts from which u can recognise whether a person really likes u from heart or its just an infatuation. Also a real judger will definitely recognise this. Alsp when u really love someone from heart then its shows of from his/her eyes & u can clearly read from eye. And if its just an attraction then some where or another it will show off. And 1 more thing if u have observed that a real lover by his/her writting only he/she can tell whether he/she loves u from heart or not. Dont u ever observed this thing??
@Stephanie5 (2946)
• United States
7 Jan 07
Good question. Can your heart be trusted to recognize real love? I think maybe sometimes. I doubt myself a lot though, so I may not be the best source for this answer. Infatuation is, more or less, lust. I've thought I was in love before but I wasn't, it was pure lust.
@lilaclady (28207)
• Australia
7 Jan 07
At the time I don't think so, it is when you look back and think how could I, I think it is hard to know.
10 Jan 07
I believe...I can fly...just kidding, no, what I really believe is that my heart will know when I meet the 'one'. That is the one guy I will live with for the rest of my life.
@patrice7 (1191)
• United States
14 Jan 07
well i think that you must first distinguish love and infatuation.. see,, if you are only infatuated yoi will find out that when you get to know the person you got the hots for and learned that he really isnt the guy you want or that there is something missing, you wont like him anymore. infatuation is focused on a certain quality of the person, not the whole person himself. when you say you love a person you accept him and like him and love him for what he was, for what he is and for what he can become. that is true love, love is sacred and unique love is transcendent.
@gemini1960 (1161)
• Philippines
22 Jan 07
i dont think so or maybe or sometimes...coz ive been into a relationships years back and i thought it will last but as soon as i laid my eyes on my wife now...
• Philippines
22 Jan 07
while infatuation is just a superficial kind of likeness to someone...like on the physical appearance only while love its both physical and inside that makes a woman/man made of or its what we called personality ..
@Lydia1901 (16351)
• United States
10 Jan 07
I could recognize love if love knocked on my door.