marriages seems ...

Yes i do aggree with u really bcoz where marraige is concern its the combination of 2 person from soul & 1 of the strongest bond is created between them which no body can break. We are even ready to leave any one for that relationship & so we should get married 2 whome we really like very deep from heart & our thinking, our like, our dislike & our most of the preferances if its same then that couple r one of the sweetest couple in the world. And this what a true relationship which can make our life heaven.

i guess your right before plunging into serious committment both must be acquainted first with each other ..have to have a longer period of courtships to be sure...but there no such thing as a sure way or methods to be successful in marriage ...its a gamble..one have to play the right card to be successful

I totally agree, that really should help.